"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you prefer? Hot or cute girls?

shiningshadow

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I like hot girls and all but I find the cute ones to be great. Most of the time I'd rather have a relationship with a cute girl. What about you guys?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Patrick124

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cute girls r less experienced in the game. They're easier to get.

hot girls know they're hot n are usually attention wh0res, or b!tches or flirts. or all 3. they play games too.

hot girls are more fo a challenge to get a stupid girl at the end of all your work.
cute girls r less work for a better personality.

so for hookups, i like em hot. and...i won't settle for a cute girl to be my gf lol. that explains why I dont do the gf bit. shes gotta be hot and smart n not a b!tch.

so: hot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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1 of each sounds great to me... who says you gotta choose anyway... its like asking whats better... cherry flavored or shared pleasure... who the hell cares you get laid either way
 

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Originally posted by steroidsrule
who the hell cares you get laid either way
Thank you for getting out my anger...i appriciate you.
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Both...
























At the same time. ;)

Oh... I always come up with the ultimate solution. :)

AS
 

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Hot girls are usually less inteligent and uninteresting because they're hot. But they're nice to pull because... they're hot. Though not every hot girl falls into this category.

I'd say I go for cute girls more often just because it's what I want more then a hot girl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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toddC

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hot girls for h/u's and cute ones for relationships caue like everyone else says they are intelligent unlike most of the hot ones. :)
 

DJ4Real

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Hot girls are more challenging....But, cute girls are better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I prefer fat nasty chicks that eat breakfast lunch and dinner at KFC
 

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hot ones

I didn't think that a hot girl and a smart girl go in the same sentence but then I went to an elitist school and I found out that they do. 42 girls of the best and brightest in the state. 35 of them were hot. 20 of them had good personality. Ten were attracted to me. Two of them I dated. One I'm still currently dating.

comic_relief
 

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I hate to ruin the moment but....... I don't know the difference.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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