“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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what do you mean no bj's?

nice_guyeh

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girl told me she doesnt like giving head. wont do it, ever. she will take ****, give a handy but no bj..... wtf.
what do you guys think? i mean getting brains isnt #1 on my bucket list, but its up there.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Young Juan

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You're actin like she's the only girl you'll ever meet. Don't chase her, replace her
 

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girl told me she doesnt like giving head. wont do it, ever.

I would guess that she has had a bad experiences in the past. Maybe her last boyfriend and her fought over the subject. I would also guess that no guy has ever really gotten her off orally.

As for how to handle it, I think it's like the 'I don't have sex on the first date' statement or any other ridiculous and arbitrary "rule" a woman makes up out of thin air. You don't agree, and you don't argue. Instead, you attack the very idea of her making such rules in the first place. And you do that by making fun of her. I'd look at her like I felt bad for her and say "awww. You had a boyfriend with smelly balls, didn't you? That's awful. I'm so sorry." Then I would continue to rip on her as though my invented statement were true and she were simply in denial. That's what she gets for saying ridiculous things like that.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
girl told me she doesnt like giving head. wont do it, ever.

I would guess that she has had a bad experiences in the past. Maybe her last boyfriend and her fought over the subject. I would also guess that no guy has ever really gotten her off orally.

As for how to handle it, I think it's like the 'I don't have sex on the first date' statement or any other ridiculous and arbitrary "rule" a woman makes up out of thin air. You don't agree, and you don't argue. Instead, you attack the very idea of her making such rules in the first place. And you do that by making fun of her. I'd look at her like I felt bad for her and say "awww. You had a boyfriend with smelly balls, didn't you? That's awful. I'm so sorry." Then I would continue to rip on her as though my invented statement were true and she were simply in denial. That's what she gets for saying ridiculous things like that.
Hahaha. This is pretty sound advice. I'm not really a big oral guy, I'm not that big into giving it, nor receiving it, I just go for the big V. But if a girl ever tried to say this sh!t to me, I'd probably just next her instantly. But that's just me.

What kind of girl doesn't give a BJ these days? I know a lot of them suck at it.. but they should at least ATTEMPT it.

-Scars
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Frankly I'd be relieved. I don't really like going down on chicks, and most girls who give BJs expect you to return the favor. I just like to f*ck.
 

Who Dares Win

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Dont believe her, few months ago I met girls who were a copy of yours, one said "she doesnt do those things" while the others said "she dont like it".

It sounds ridicolous but I managed to get them do it by telling that it was ok and that they could just give a kiss to the tip and that would have made my happy.

No need to tell that once they were there some further request had them blowing me, not the porn movie ******* stile but a decent one.
Awfully didnt managed to convince to blow me till the happy ending but still it was the first time for girl nr1 and the third time for girl nr2.

It also helps to have them lying on the bed where its more easy for them to open their mouth than to push you away.
 

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My motto has always been "she gotta go if she don't blow". Personally I enjoy going down on a bird. Getting her off like that gives you an immense sense of power over her. If she doesn't return the favour then id keep her for a bit but never make her my gf. I got my last ltr to do it even though she said she didn't want\like doing it.

She maybe seeing if you're prepared to walk away if you aren't satisfied and she is trying to take control over something she knows you will want. If that's the case either walk away our find someway to reverse this by holding back on something she values in a relationship. IE attention.
 

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You could try putting honey or something sweet on your pryck. It's messy but might help her get over any issues...
 
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If a girl won't give me a Barry Johnson then she's out the door with immediate effect.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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