"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haboob

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Ok so I go on MSN one time and I have this conversation:

Me: hey
Her: hi
Her: wil u buy me something ..like clothes
Her: ??
Me: lol y?
Her: coz i want some
Me: umm no
Her: new ones
Her: ohh plz
Me: haha buy em yourself if you want em so bad
Her: tell ur parents u need to buy ur ilfriend a shirt
Me: but that would b a lie wouldnt it?
Her: no
Me: mm really?
Me: im still not buyin ya clothes
Her: come one
Me: wats in it for me?
Her: wat do ya want
Me: depends
Me: how much is this shirt lol?
Her: 49.00
Her: dollas
Me: yeh i guessed that dollers part
Her: lol
Me: lol and you jsut expect em to have a spare 50 bucks
Her: ok wel i can get a cheaper one
Her: 30 dollas
Her:?
Me: mm yeh thats still 30$ i would rather not spend
Her: u cuda just sed that in the first place
Me: good point
Hmm so what do you guys make of this?

My guess... She's trying to take advantage of me because she knows I like her. Sure I could of made the conversation a bit better but oh well who cares now. But I'm still curious...


Then I go on another time and the conversation is:

Her: hahahahah (my name)...
Me: Yeh?
Me: umm what?
Her: ummmm don't be rude
*she logs off*
Damn chicks are so confusing. And did I mention her display picture was of her and another guy during that second conversation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JesterX

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dude either shes tryin to be very subtle about showing that she likes you (tell ur parents ur buying a shirt for you girlfriend comment) and is trying to make you jealous with the pic. or shes havin a laugh at you and messing with your head. my best bet would be the 2nd one.
 

Morphiex

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stay away from that kind of girls , she just wants o use you make you buy her **** and do her stuff, and she was trying to make u jelous when she changed the pic, so that you would really consider bying her stuff.....
more and ore girls are becoming *****es like that....

but you got two options you can :

1. play her and get a lay or sumthing , but this requires some skill...

2. move on and try to stay away from girls like her.....
 

Haboob

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Jester I thought that your first scenario was true at first being my stupid AFC self. But the the good guys here made me realise that I'm stupid and the second scenario was true.

Morphiex your right. AC/DC said the same thing. I wouldn't have the skill to play her so I best just move on. Might be hard because of my 'stupid AFC self'.

Anyway the new-found attitude I have thanks to this site should help.
 

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You could've probably used some C&F along the way...
maybe something like


HER: Buy me some new clothes? Please?
YOU: Oh cmon, I'm sure there are much better ways to make you happy.
HER: No~ I want clothes, please?
YOU: If you want them so bad, you're gonna have to do something special for me;)
HER: Like what?
YOU: Welllllllllll....you have to cook for me, give me a good 1hour massage, clean me up in the showers, and tuck me into bed :D
YOU: Did you get that? I've only just started reading the list!

it's not just keyboard jockeying, that's what I would have done.

As for the girl, chances are she's planning on using you; seems like a red flag when she's trying to use you for your money!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Haboob

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Ditch the girl, right. Not like I ever had her to begin with :p

Anyway that conversation you made up seemed pretty lame to me :p
 

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begging for a 50 dollar shirt? what a good catch you found there, tell her to get a job.
 
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