"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you make of this video? A take on NEXTing and flakes.

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It's from Todd V and his take on flaky girls. Amazing he waited a whole 6 months to get with a girl. I wonder what you guys make of this?

Fellas, you have the floor.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like what he is doing is just not burning bridges or deleting a number and just coming back to it at a later date or continuing to text while he is meeting up with other women. Pretty sure he is not just sitting around for 6 months trying to get with this one woman.
 
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You have to realize he is full of sht. He is selling a product, he has to separate himself from the rest. Downgrade 'nexting at the beggining level' to 'guys giving up because of a sht test', and then uphimself as an advanced level because he passed a sht test. We know the interest level scale, and we know where we at, and we base 'nexting' based on where we at. Flake? Should you fcking pursue her after a flake? Availability sht trap? Should you make yourself available? There is an effort vs. reward, it has nothing to do with advanced. This guy is full of sht, he's trying to sell you that he is advanced.
 
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BackInTheGame78 said:
Sounds like what he is doing is just not burning bridges or deleting a number and just coming back to it at a later date or continuing to text while he is meeting up with other women. Pretty sure he is not just sitting around for 6 months trying to get with this one woman.
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He's not one of the coaches I follow.

Deleting a number doesn't make you weak. You're throwing out dead leads, attention wh0res, and time wasters. Why would you want those types of women around you anyway? How often do flaky women and attention wh0res come back around and put you in an alpha fux role? Not that often, I'm sure. It's more to get you in a beta role. Ignoring her might hurt her, but she'll just spend more time going after Chad or Tyrone. She won't miss you unless you were big beta bux.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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He's not one of the coaches I follow.

Deleting a number doesn't make you weak. You're throwing out dead leads, attention wh0res, and time wasters. Why would you want those types of women around you anyway? How often do flaky women and attention wh0res come back around and put you in an alpha fux role? Not that often, I'm sure. It's more to get you in a beta role. Ignoring her might hurt her, but she'll just spend more time going after Chad or Tyrone. She won't miss you unless you were big beta bux.
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If he is just looking for lays and not expecting anything else then I don't see the issue if he is continuing to get other women in the meantime. Sure it is a low percentage play most likely but perhaps he has some ability to make it a higher percentage move for him.
 
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