"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you look for, in a girl..?

European-DJ

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A couple of days ago, I set up an online dating account, as adviced by some of you guys in the 'post-your-pic' topic.

I am getting a great deal of attention, but every girl seems to ask the same question "what do you look for in a girl"/"what kind of girls are you into". While I could be straight forward and just tell them, I was wondering if any of you guys were capable of providing me with some fun/****y answers to that kind of question?

Thanks in advance,

European.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The time i keep a female around directly correlates to her looks/body/status/obedience
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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temperament, nice body, cooking skills, hit me and get mad easily. sexy body, latin, dance skills
 

adam225

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DonGorgon said:
cool personally
good looks (at least a 6)
high sex drive
no drama

its is extremely difficult to find women with those features these days
This. With similar interests as well (specially holiday wise).
She must be clean as well. I'm fussy about hygiene.
 
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