"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you look for, in a girl..?

European-DJ

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A couple of days ago, I set up an online dating account, as adviced by some of you guys in the 'post-your-pic' topic.

I am getting a great deal of attention, but every girl seems to ask the same question "what do you look for in a girl"/"what kind of girls are you into". While I could be straight forward and just tell them, I was wondering if any of you guys were capable of providing me with some fun/****y answers to that kind of question?

Thanks in advance,

European.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The time i keep a female around directly correlates to her looks/body/status/obedience
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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temperament, nice body, cooking skills, hit me and get mad easily. sexy body, latin, dance skills
 

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DonGorgon said:
cool personally
good looks (at least a 6)
high sex drive
no drama

its is extremely difficult to find women with those features these days
This. With similar interests as well (specially holiday wise).
She must be clean as well. I'm fussy about hygiene.
 
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