She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When you start demanding 7 figures, 6'+ height, rock hard abs, 8" ****, no kids, but willing to take care of her 3 children all from 3 different men, and looks like a god damn ogre herself.. I would say that is acting like a 9. 100%
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You're trying to tell me how to act right now. Am I not allowed to have an opinion on ugly girls?
Because this normalizes the feminists agenda.. it's the reason we have a #meetoo movement. Men are white knights and women are gods gift to men who can do no wrong. It's disgusting. I've always been openly against this stuff.
I know it happens, just look at Kate Hudson. She has three kids from three different dudes, and she's a role model. Same thing with Ciara. If these ladies are what young ladies look up to, then the system is going to repeat itself. It's going to be a race to the bottom, not the top.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't understand why unhealthy lazy body types are celebrated. Shouldn't everyone strive to be healthier, stronger, better? But no, that's too hard, so we are going to blame men for not being attracted to us.