"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SamMalone

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So a girl that I'm be seeing calls me tonight. She says she doesn't want a date and wants a long term relationship. She said she doesn't want to see me if I don't want the same with her. I agree and say ok, cause she's cool and hot and it could possibly work. We have a similar sense of humor and background.

Anyways, she then goes on to say if she can't pay the rent she is going to start "dancing" as early as Friday night, or become a secretary for a guy she use to go out with who still loves her. I told her I think the secretary thing is a bad situation for her but she insists the guy still respects her despite crushing on her. I also told her I don't want a long term thing with a stripper because it was trashy. She said she won't be doing the guys? Then she was mad because I was interfering with her life and decisions and said I should think it over.

Am I crazy here? Should I keep banging her while (if) she strips while looking for something else? Would the boyfriend thing bother anyone else here or am I just a crazy bastard?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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edger

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SamMalone said:
I also told her I don't want a long term thing with a stripper because it was trashy. She said she won't be doing the guys? Then she was mad because I was interfering with her life and decisions and said I should think it over.
Who care's if she wants to strip. Nothing wrong with it. Do you even know what "trashy" is by the way? Narrow-minded guys like you in the world are the reason why women are the way they are.
 

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It sounds like she's trying to get you to pay her rent. Maybe not but that's the way it reads.
 
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