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What do you guys think of the CEO caught having an affair at a Coldplay concert?

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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This, potentially anyway, sucks for him while also being of no consequence to the rest of us
 

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This, potentially anyway, sucks for him while also being of no consequence to the rest of us
It's probably mocking the current state of relationships globally, with the rise of smartphones, social media and dating apps, and plain ole cultural vanity, cheating has never been more prominent as it was now.
 

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...with the rise of smartphones, social media and dating apps...
All of which had become pervasive by the early 10s. Speaking as if this is a fresh phenomena is more perplexing than feigning ignorance of suicide bombers being venerated in The West Bank
 

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I'm more concerned about that black guy in Jacksonville Florida that was pulled out of his car and beaten up for asking the cops why he stopped and didn't understand why he had to keep his headlights on in the daytime. There is also a massive comet heading our way too. I mean, there is just too much news out there to care much about the lives of two strangers who probably have allot more money than any of us do. No matter what happens to them, they are not ending up homeless. So, why should we care?
 

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Hard to feel sorry for the buy or her when the guy had everything, a beautiful wife, family etc.
People's social media feeds are not indicative of reality.

Prominent divorce attorney James Sexton has said the happy life and family pictures on social media are often not based in reality. He's seen social media accounts of people in his office/on virtual calls with him. When listening to the reality of their lives, he has wondered how they have posted such happy pictures/videos on social media.

Andy Byron had a reputation of being a toxic CEO. Many of his current and ex employees were enjoying his downfall.


Kristin Cabot officially resigned as the Chief People Officer (fancy term for HR Director) yesterday.

 
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People's social media feeds are not indicative of reality.

Prominent divorce attorney James Sexton has said the happy life and family pictures on social media are often not based in reality. He's seen social media accounts of people in his office/on virtual calls with him. When listening to the reality of their lives, he has wondered how they have posted such happy pictures/videos on social media.

Andy Byron had a reputation of being a toxic CEO. Many of his current and ex employees were enjoying his downfall.


Kristin Cabot officially resigned as the Chief People Officer (fancy term for HR Director) yesterday.

I'm not going of his socials just the stuff I researched the guy is worth 50-70 million. Massachusetts has 50/50 martial law if the guy doesn't have a preup he's basically screwed. The wife is currently holed in their 3 million dollar house.

Why take the risk?

Why should I feel sorry for him? I feel sorry for his kids and the wife not the scumbag
 

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I researched the guy is worth 50-70 million.
I saw that Andy Byron was worth $20 million - $70 million. Even if the real net worth is closer to $20 million, he is wealthy.

Massachusetts has 50/50 martial law if the guy doesn't have a preup he's basically screwed.
Getting a pre-nupital agreement before marriage is a good idea. Pre-nupital agreements are under utilized.

I'm not sure if Andy Byron was wealthy prior to the marriage. I think there are a lot of men out there who get married when they have few assets but then get assets after the date of marriage. Because they didn't have much before the marriage, they didn't get the pre-nup.

I hope Andrew Cabot was smart enough to get a pre-nup with Kristin. It was not a first marriage for either and Andrew Cabot has generational wealth.

Why should I feel sorry for him? I feel sorry for his kids and the wife not the scumbag
You shouldn't.

Andy Byron's kids have seen an unhappy marriage for years. Infidelity was likely to happen on either side or both sides in that marriage. It's unknown if Megan Kerrigan Byron had extramarital sex too. Andy Byron's kids are teens/young adults now.

Kristin and Andrew Cabot both had kids in past marriages. They had zero kids together since Kristin was menopausal when they got together.
 

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Pretty sad that's the best he could get if that's what he decided to risk tens or hundreds of millions of dollars on.
 

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Dear Mr. Byron,

If you're gonna have an affair especially with an executive at your company, it's a good idea to NOT attend public events together especially with your arms wrapped around each other - jeez! o_O

I don't care about their ages (him 50/her 52) but since many of you guys do (not a judgment) why do you think he chose Kristin at 52, two years older to have an affair with?

He'a an extremely successful wealthy good looking man! He could easily get with a woman 15-20 years younger!

I suspect why, but curious what you guys think?

I feel badly for his kids, and hers!
 
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He could easily get with a woman 15-20 years younger.
If he could have done that, he probably would have. Choosing a similarly aged woman for an affair partner showed he is a beta male.

I feel badly for his kids, and hers!
The 2 Byron children have probably watched their parents having a lousy marriage for at least the last 10 years. That has to have some impact. I know observing the lousy marriage that my parents had impacted me and my parents didn't divorce until I was in high school and most of the way to adulthood. Up until now, the Byrons were maintaining the illusion of a happy, well adjusted family from social media pictures and videos. The Byron children can take some solace in the fact that their parents essentially stayed together until they were either adults or nearly adults.

The Byron children are going to have some uncomfortable graduations, birthdays, and holidays for the forseeable future. It is unpleasant for adult children to deal with their divorced parents at family gatherings. Also, the Byron children will be spending their young adult years dealing with meeting their parents' new lovers at family gatherings. That's not fun. It's a long adjustment when your parent has a new significant other/marital partner, even when that happens to you as an adult.

At 52, it would be surprising to find out that Kristin Cabot has younger children. The child/children from her previous marriage are probably 15+ years old. Kristin's child/children would have been impacted by the divorce filing in 2018. Andrew Cabot might have had some younger children from his previous marriage.
 

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Choosing a similarly aged woman for an affair partner showed he is a beta male.
^^Could be but then again he's known for being extremely aggressive, a hard-core go-getter and boss to the point of being utterly toxic. According to his former employees.

He's also made a whole lot of money for the company and himself. Millions.

Doesn't sound beta to me, but I suppose one never knows what someone is like behind closed doors.

I suspect he chose her for the same reason my dad chose to divorce my mom (who was several years younger AND more beautiful than my stepmom) and marry a woman his own age in his late 40s/early 50s (my stepmom).

And why @BeExcellent now husband chose her even though BE was a divorced single mom five years older.

And possibly why Tom Brady and Ryan Gosling chose older women.

They found something "special" that went beyond the superficial (appearance/age), that somethin somethin that often times cannot even be explained.

My dad ended up being the happiest he has ever been in his LIFE with my stepmom!

This (including Byron's toxic marriage) will definitely negatively impact the kids perhaps even for life!

Unfortunately, I speak from experience.

JMO
 
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^^Could be but then again he's known for being extremely aggressive, a hard-core go-getter and boss to the point of being utterly toxic. According to his former employees.
He sounded like a terrible member of management. I would have disliked working for him. There's a reason there were reports that current and ex employees enjoyed the recent events at the Coldplay concert that led to his downfall.
 

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Dear Mr. Byron,

If you're gonna have an affair especially with an executive at your company, it's a good idea to NOT attend public events together especially with your arms wrapped around each other - jeez! o_O

I don't care about their ages (him 50/her 52) but since many of you guys do (not a judgment) why do you think he chose Kristin at 52, two years older to have an affair with?

He'a an extremely successful wealthy good looking man! He could easily get with a woman 15-20 years younger!

I suspect why, but curious what you guys think?

I feel badly for his kids, and hers!
He’s a busy guy who’s also married. He didn’t have the time or inclination to try to find someone younger on the outside.

He went with someone he already knew well and had a connection with. That just happened to be the HR lady at the same workplace :oops:.

I feel badly for both families.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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