"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you guys think of Askmen.com?

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I've been researching some Good websites that deals with Men's issues and Self Improvement. The Red Pill Archives is one of them. I recently looked into Askmen.com and I thought if a dude who had some Basic knowledge of this website and applied that context within the advise that is given in Askmen.com, well that might be helpful. What do you guys think? Do you guys find that website to be useful?

https://www.askmen.com/style/fashion_advice/
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Was one of the first sites I user to go on but it's to PCish kind of like Reddit

Reddit will ban you really quick if they deem you to critical of women, problem with reddit and askmen is that people fall into the "Validation loop" where they will lie and b.s. for likes and popularity instead of telling the truth, Reddit hasn't been the same since 2015
 

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Was one of the first sites I user to go on but it's to PCish kind of like Reddit

Reddit will ban you really quick if they deem you to critical of women, problem with reddit and askmen is that people fall into the "Validation loop" where they will lie and b.s. for likes and popularity instead of telling the truth, Reddit hasn't been the same since 2015
Lol, reddit got rid of it's mgtows content section because it was hateful and critical of women supposedly. So yeah third wave feminism is pulling the strings on these sites. What do you think of Askmen.com's fashion and style content? Do you think those advise are good?
 

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Used to be cool, then it went Woke
I remember reading some article off of it in the early 2000s when I first got into seduction content. I remember reading Doc Love and someone called "The Player" in that era. I was also reading some David DeAngelo in those days. I wish I had heard of Mystery during my college years (2001-2005). Mystery started to teach Neil Strauss while I was in college.

I stopped visiting that site long ago but did hear that it went woke.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I stopped visiting that site long ago but did hear that it went woke.
The media landscape of the past decade is similar, in one sense, to the one that existed in The 1980s... During the latter no mainstream/mainstream-esque venue was going to question the Morning In America ethos that was then in fashion too stridently, whereas during the former, dissent with Intersectionality was pretty much confined to Anti-SJW segments of social media. Sadly, they've got their own party lines and sacred cows
 

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I've been researching some Good websites that deals with Men's issues and Self Improvement. The Red Pill Archives is one of them. I recently looked into Askmen.com and I thought if a dude who had some Basic knowledge of this website and applied that context within the advise that is given in Askmen.com, well that might be helpful. What do you guys think? Do you guys find that website to be useful?

https://www.askmen.com/style/fashion_advice/
I do think men will benefit from taking advice on style because inherently we are NoT as stylish, especially when it's about game .

But the problem as usual us that " this ain't it bro ". Sites like this oftentimes tend to push men into some kinda ghey-ish dress code, making you look like someone you are NOT.

There are literally thousands of styles to pick from but IMO the best styles will always beat the hands of time. Timeless styles are the way to go. We will soon see a resurgence of 80s and earlier type of styles because at very least men were dressing like men( ofcourse there are exceptions)
 

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I’m skeptical of fashionable advice because half of it focuses on appearance, which is your body and grooming, and it can be achieved through discipline in the gym and basic hygiene. The other half is about social awareness, which involves reading situations, understanding people, and adjusting your behaviour. Teaching social awareness equips you to be successful in any setting, while fashionable advice often just masks a lack of depth.

As for websites like AskMen.com, they strike me like an outdated, bootlegged version of GQ.
 
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