"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you guys think of Askmen.com?

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I've been researching some Good websites that deals with Men's issues and Self Improvement. The Red Pill Archives is one of them. I recently looked into Askmen.com and I thought if a dude who had some Basic knowledge of this website and applied that context within the advise that is given in Askmen.com, well that might be helpful. What do you guys think? Do you guys find that website to be useful?

https://www.askmen.com/style/fashion_advice/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Was one of the first sites I user to go on but it's to PCish kind of like Reddit

Reddit will ban you really quick if they deem you to critical of women, problem with reddit and askmen is that people fall into the "Validation loop" where they will lie and b.s. for likes and popularity instead of telling the truth, Reddit hasn't been the same since 2015
 

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Was one of the first sites I user to go on but it's to PCish kind of like Reddit

Reddit will ban you really quick if they deem you to critical of women, problem with reddit and askmen is that people fall into the "Validation loop" where they will lie and b.s. for likes and popularity instead of telling the truth, Reddit hasn't been the same since 2015
Lol, reddit got rid of it's mgtows content section because it was hateful and critical of women supposedly. So yeah third wave feminism is pulling the strings on these sites. What do you think of Askmen.com's fashion and style content? Do you think those advise are good?
 

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Used to be cool, then it went Woke
I remember reading some article off of it in the early 2000s when I first got into seduction content. I remember reading Doc Love and someone called "The Player" in that era. I was also reading some David DeAngelo in those days. I wish I had heard of Mystery during my college years (2001-2005). Mystery started to teach Neil Strauss while I was in college.

I stopped visiting that site long ago but did hear that it went woke.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I stopped visiting that site long ago but did hear that it went woke.
The media landscape of the past decade is similar, in one sense, to the one that existed in The 1980s... During the latter no mainstream/mainstream-esque venue was going to question the Morning In America ethos that was then in fashion too stridently, whereas during the former, dissent with Intersectionality was pretty much confined to Anti-SJW segments of social media. Sadly, they've got their own party lines and sacred cows
 

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I've been researching some Good websites that deals with Men's issues and Self Improvement. The Red Pill Archives is one of them. I recently looked into Askmen.com and I thought if a dude who had some Basic knowledge of this website and applied that context within the advise that is given in Askmen.com, well that might be helpful. What do you guys think? Do you guys find that website to be useful?

https://www.askmen.com/style/fashion_advice/
I do think men will benefit from taking advice on style because inherently we are NoT as stylish, especially when it's about game .

But the problem as usual us that " this ain't it bro ". Sites like this oftentimes tend to push men into some kinda ghey-ish dress code, making you look like someone you are NOT.

There are literally thousands of styles to pick from but IMO the best styles will always beat the hands of time. Timeless styles are the way to go. We will soon see a resurgence of 80s and earlier type of styles because at very least men were dressing like men( ofcourse there are exceptions)
 

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I’m skeptical of fashionable advice because half of it focuses on appearance, which is your body and grooming, and it can be achieved through discipline in the gym and basic hygiene. The other half is about social awareness, which involves reading situations, understanding people, and adjusting your behaviour. Teaching social awareness equips you to be successful in any setting, while fashionable advice often just masks a lack of depth.

As for websites like AskMen.com, they strike me like an outdated, bootlegged version of GQ.
 
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