"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SomeRandomGuy

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I never thought I would ever be posting but hey I need help.
I don’t live in the states, I live in the Caribbean and for some odd reason I find it easier to get American girls than people of my own culture.
Anyway point is I met this person. Its really hard to find this person and like I saw her about 2 times in the whole freaking year before I spoke to her on Thursday. It was a good conversation and nothing seemed to be out of place. I was able to get her name and some information but since I was late for my next class I had to leave before I got the chance to say my name. After that I didn’t talk to her on Friday but today (Monday) I did and i said my name and bladibladiblah. Everything was going fine and I even taught her how to do some of my art and gave her a packet of my razors so she could practice it(I do an odd art). Then somewhere in the conversation she said "yeah well I get stressful but I normally go out a lot you know....people invite me and I go, helps to keep the mind off things(in Spanish)". Now this Saturday I’m going to the movies with my best friend so I thought "ahh what the heck let me invite her" and I did but the way i did was in a frendly "want to come along" matter. Now the problem that comes here is the way she reacted. Instead of a no or a yes she just looked surprised and stayed quite then I said that I was serious and if she wanted to go and she said that she'll see(and that answer most of the time means bad things for me). After that I went to my class with her and she told me she liked a guy in one of my classes and she knew he was gay, after that I just went in my class and let her go her own way.

Should I drop the whole girl and NEXT her(which I can do but would prefer not to) or should I keep trying?
Note: The girl is extremely hard to find and to talk to her since I can only talk to her when 1 of my teachers misses and the rest of the time she disappears.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wavejams007

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A few things. First, what sort of art do you do? I was just wandering, cuz at first i thought you were a cutter or something, and that ain't cool. Second, your best bet is to next her, because she will most likely either flat out reject you, or say"Let's just be friends" or some variation of that . Trust me, THAT SUCKS. If you really want her, snoop around and find out where she hangs out and all. I don't mean be a stalker, but ask around. Another question, what part of the carribean do you live in that speaks spanish( I am kind ignorant in this matter)? I live in Ecuador South America and was just wandering what part of the Carribean speaks spanish. Hasta luego.
 

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Puerto Rico...

Well i live in Puerto Rico. Anyways....my art work is kinda like making stencils and people seem to like it a lot becuase it requires a lot of pacience. Actually she seemed to enjoy.
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Second, your best bet is to next her, because she will most likely either flat out reject you, or say"Let's just be friends" or some variation of that . Trust me, THAT SUCKS.
I wouldn't next her if I were you. I've approached girls who have told me to **** off yet have ended up kissing them. It's all probably just tests. DJs are rare, and when a girl meets a DJ she will test them to see if they really are a DJ or are just fakes. If you next now then you were just a fake. Persistance is key to getting hot girls, just don't go stalker on her ok.:D
 

SomeRandomGuy

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Yeah thats what i was thinking also. Im just going to ask tommorow(thursday) since i havent talked to her since (monday) agian and just see if she made up her mind and then just go with the answer. Im fine with whatever happens so it really doesnt matter what she anwers, im still going with or without her :D
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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