Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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SomeRandomGuy

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I never thought I would ever be posting but hey I need help.
I don’t live in the states, I live in the Caribbean and for some odd reason I find it easier to get American girls than people of my own culture.
Anyway point is I met this person. Its really hard to find this person and like I saw her about 2 times in the whole freaking year before I spoke to her on Thursday. It was a good conversation and nothing seemed to be out of place. I was able to get her name and some information but since I was late for my next class I had to leave before I got the chance to say my name. After that I didn’t talk to her on Friday but today (Monday) I did and i said my name and bladibladiblah. Everything was going fine and I even taught her how to do some of my art and gave her a packet of my razors so she could practice it(I do an odd art). Then somewhere in the conversation she said "yeah well I get stressful but I normally go out a lot you know....people invite me and I go, helps to keep the mind off things(in Spanish)". Now this Saturday I’m going to the movies with my best friend so I thought "ahh what the heck let me invite her" and I did but the way i did was in a frendly "want to come along" matter. Now the problem that comes here is the way she reacted. Instead of a no or a yes she just looked surprised and stayed quite then I said that I was serious and if she wanted to go and she said that she'll see(and that answer most of the time means bad things for me). After that I went to my class with her and she told me she liked a guy in one of my classes and she knew he was gay, after that I just went in my class and let her go her own way.

Should I drop the whole girl and NEXT her(which I can do but would prefer not to) or should I keep trying?
Note: The girl is extremely hard to find and to talk to her since I can only talk to her when 1 of my teachers misses and the rest of the time she disappears.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wavejams007

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A few things. First, what sort of art do you do? I was just wandering, cuz at first i thought you were a cutter or something, and that ain't cool. Second, your best bet is to next her, because she will most likely either flat out reject you, or say"Let's just be friends" or some variation of that . Trust me, THAT SUCKS. If you really want her, snoop around and find out where she hangs out and all. I don't mean be a stalker, but ask around. Another question, what part of the carribean do you live in that speaks spanish( I am kind ignorant in this matter)? I live in Ecuador South America and was just wandering what part of the Carribean speaks spanish. Hasta luego.
 

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Puerto Rico...

Well i live in Puerto Rico. Anyways....my art work is kinda like making stencils and people seem to like it a lot becuase it requires a lot of pacience. Actually she seemed to enjoy.
 

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Originally posted by wavejams007
Second, your best bet is to next her, because she will most likely either flat out reject you, or say"Let's just be friends" or some variation of that . Trust me, THAT SUCKS.
I wouldn't next her if I were you. I've approached girls who have told me to **** off yet have ended up kissing them. It's all probably just tests. DJs are rare, and when a girl meets a DJ she will test them to see if they really are a DJ or are just fakes. If you next now then you were just a fake. Persistance is key to getting hot girls, just don't go stalker on her ok.:D
 

SomeRandomGuy

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Yeah thats what i was thinking also. Im just going to ask tommorow(thursday) since i havent talked to her since (monday) agian and just see if she made up her mind and then just go with the answer. Im fine with whatever happens so it really doesnt matter what she anwers, im still going with or without her :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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