"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you guys think about this??

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Let me know what you guys think...

The first one I met at a bar with a buddy. We went back to her place and my buddy took her friend upstairs and beat her guts in. Anyway, the girl I was after went into her room and left me sitting on the couch by myself. I put a movie in and yelled to her, asking if she wanted to join me in watching the movie. She obliged and came out and sat on a separate couch. After a few minutes, she said it was too cold and said she was going back in her room and that she'd let me lay in bed next to her and watch the movie as long as I didn't get "handsy". I went in her room but I laid on the floor next to her bed. We talked and had subtle flirtation and a little kino but I was sooo tired and drunk(she was too), that I eventually fell asleep.

My question is: did I do the right thing by not laying in the bed next to her?? And do I have a chance of waxing that azz in the future?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think it depends on how she took it. A) being she assumed you werent attracted to her. B) She might just think you were being a nice guy and there for you can earn trust points from her C) she was to drunk to remember anyway.. All in all i think you will be able to wax that azz next time
 
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He won't be waxing it. if she was interested, she'd make it known. She was just trying to be nice. Simple as that.
 
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yea that situation seemed pretty horrible...if you get ass out of that i will congratulate you
 
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It looks like you played it too safe. In response to "handsy", a good C&F response is "Just because I have to keep my hands to myself doesn't mean you can tie me up and take advantage of me (or my sexy bod)."

While in her room, if you would have gone up to her and told her to move over, she probably would make room. Then it is perfect to set up more C&F like I hope you don't have handcuffs and a gun nearby to take advantage of me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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