"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phonk Beta

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Let me know what you guys think...

The first one I met at a bar with a buddy. We went back to her place and my buddy took her friend upstairs and beat her guts in. Anyway, the girl I was after went into her room and left me sitting on the couch by myself. I put a movie in and yelled to her, asking if she wanted to join me in watching the movie. She obliged and came out and sat on a separate couch. After a few minutes, she said it was too cold and said she was going back in her room and that she'd let me lay in bed next to her and watch the movie as long as I didn't get "handsy". I went in her room but I laid on the floor next to her bed. We talked and had subtle flirtation and a little kino but I was sooo tired and drunk(she was too), that I eventually fell asleep.

My question is: did I do the right thing by not laying in the bed next to her?? And do I have a chance of waxing that azz in the future?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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theirishman

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I think it depends on how she took it. A) being she assumed you werent attracted to her. B) She might just think you were being a nice guy and there for you can earn trust points from her C) she was to drunk to remember anyway.. All in all i think you will be able to wax that azz next time
 

Wiesman44

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He won't be waxing it. if she was interested, she'd make it known. She was just trying to be nice. Simple as that.
 

kiz

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yea that situation seemed pretty horrible...if you get ass out of that i will congratulate you
 

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It looks like you played it too safe. In response to "handsy", a good C&F response is "Just because I have to keep my hands to myself doesn't mean you can tie me up and take advantage of me (or my sexy bod)."

While in her room, if you would have gone up to her and told her to move over, she probably would make room. Then it is perfect to set up more C&F like I hope you don't have handcuffs and a gun nearby to take advantage of me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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