AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
What do you guys think about purposely not [test] driving the new car at the automobile shop until after you bought it?
Well there is your answer.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What do you guys think about purposely not kissing on the first date
- Thread starter FlexpertHamilton
- Start date
Well there is your answer.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
I don't know, that's why I'm asking if anyone has tried it. I think there is merit to the idea. I believe women are so used to certain behaviors from men, that doing something different, even if it makes no sense, can be effective for creating intrigue. In the short term, if you just want to get laid, it's ****ing stupid, but if you're looking to setup an LTR with a great first impression? Well, it's not such a crazy idea.
Cars are far less complex than womenWhat do you guys think about purposely not [test] driving the new car at the automobile shop until after you bought it?
Well there is your answer.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
She’ll probably think you’re not interested & move on. Women have lots of options.
IamtheAlphamale
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If you get a girl back somewhere and u say I don't have sex this early it's actually way easier to progress. Just actually just makeout for a long time.
They will be trying to escalate a lot
AureliusMaximus
Master Don Juan
Ha ha true. Even more reasons for that "test drive" then at first sight...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.