Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Agree . He literally just had to start fvcking some of the ladies he turns his nose down to and treat them better his game wouldve exploded.Most posters here have tried to help him for a while. I was naive as well and thought he'd be a don juan in no time. He just needed to work on a couple of little aspects and he'd be great. No progress has been made though.
For months, I've come to the realization that he is either a dedicated troll (because like Richard, he stays very loyal to his gimmick and that's what sets them apart) or someone with severe mental issues who won't do a thing about it. Either way, it's pointless to keep giving him attention on his threads because he's gonna ignore all of it.
He looks good enough to fvck ethnics in Chicago. Chasing snobs when he has no pvssy is plain dumb. Maybe he is a troll.No amount of diet is going to give you that "look". You either have it or you don't, it's determined at birth.
I think you obsess too much over looks bro. The guy in the picture is obviously handsome but you don't have to look like that to get ass. Believe it or not not all women would find him attractive, which makes worrying about your looks a waste of time.
Oh i've never seen his pic so I don't know.He looks good enough to fvck ethnics in Chicago. Chasing snobs when he has no pvssy is plain dumb. Maybe he is a troll.
We gave real world advice which will turn his situation around and he stays on this fantasy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If that guy gained 20 lbs, he wouldn't have that look in the face anymore, not by a long shotNo amount of diet is going to give you that "look". You either have it or you don't, it's determined at birth.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You remind me a friend of mine . He speaks exactly the same way . Actually i feel like it’s him writing this thread .I'm around 13% bodyfat right now...I very badly need to get down to 8 or 9% body fat. I actually have that classic facial structure for the chiseled jawline (wide jaw, strong low chin, high cheekbones) and my face already looks very masculine at 13% bodyfat, but at 8% BF, I would have that classic male model sunken cheeks look
I'm talking about this look
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My plan to get there is I'm going to do the protein sparing modified fast diet...which is a very low calorie, super high protein, high fiber diet that will get you shredded in no time. I need to lose 15 lbs in a month
After that point, I will get professional photos done and just hammer online dating. I figure the percentage of women who fit my requirements is maybe 2-3% of women online so if I do match, eharmony, okcupid and every other site...I can maybe find 300 or 400 women who fit my requirements. Out of that, surely a couple would be willing to go out on a date with me no? Once I get a date, I should be good
I'm going to keep trying to work on myself in real life but real life dating is so hard because I'm so ultra picky that the vast majority of women don't fit my wants and the most who do aren't going to be single anyways or they're in a situation where approaching is extremely difficult but I will continue to try to improve myself and be more confident and be more genuine around women. I think women have a great bull**** detector and they can tell when you're not being natural/genuine around them
Lol, that guy also changed from a polo shirt to a tank top, grew facial hair, put in ear rings, got a new hairstyle, put on a necklace, and took his glasses off. How is that supposed to be a fair comparison? It's worse than most female before/after pictures I've seen.
lol the face is pretty much the same. The only difference is he got a better haircut, ditched the glasses and probably went on a couple of cycles of testosterone.If that guy gained 20 lbs, he wouldn't have that look in the face anymore, not by a long shot
There is a reason all male models are like 9% BF...because at 8 or 9%, the face looks very angular and handsome. This is assuming you have a good jawline with high cheekbones and a good chin. I have a fantastic jawline with very masculine facial features. If you have fine features with a "long face", being lean looks horrible
from chubby to lean
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
getting lean and muscular helps the face tremendouslyFolks are going to say that because the incel crowd says it that it's BS, but it doesn't matter how good the body is if the fundamental bone structure is just not quite right. I'd have to see your face to see if you have already hit your maximum.
What if they're both just Salty feminists? What kind of man would troll a site like this to that extent? It doesn't make sense.Most posters here have tried to help him for a while. I was naive as well and thought he'd be a don juan in no time. He just needed to work on a couple of little aspects and he'd be great. No progress has been made though.
For months, I've come to the realization that he is either a dedicated troll (because like Richard, he stays very loyal to his gimmick and that's what sets them apart) or someone with severe mental issues who won't do a thing about it. Either way, it's pointless to keep giving him attention on his threads because he's gonna ignore all of it.
You know what. That make sense . Maybe she wanted men to obsess on their looks like women.What if they're both just Salty feminists? What kind of man would troll a site like this to that extent? It doesn't make sense.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.