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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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what do you guys think about kissing at school?

(JJ)

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ok there's a girl i like. we've already gone out once (not technically "dating" tho) and i kissed her when we went out. But it wasnt like a passionate make out session it was just a kiss. so my question is do you guys think its weird to pull off kiss number 2 at school? personally ive never kissed a girl at school that i hadnt at least made out with. and also i have a pretty strong feeling that the first kiss should set a good precedent...by NOT being at school. so what do yall think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Randallpink83

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yeah, fvcking make out with her however you can.... School is boring unless you make it fun.

But seriously if I'm in a position where I CAN make out with a girl, you better believe that the situation I'm in won't stop me from making it happen. Even if you must pull her around a corner or goto a more secluded area.

....they didnt have to make a PDA rule for nothing.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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I can't believe you are [censored] asking this! of course you should kiss her in school! just find a private little area where you and your gf can be alone during recess (or at least not a lot of people around) and kiss her! this is high school, enjoy your time there. Girls is a big part of life and it is what memories are made of. You should be kissing as much as possible! Look at me I never had a gf till after high school, do you think I don't regret this? I wish I was in your spot I will forever live with not having memories of my first high school loves cause I never had one, instead I will look back at all the detention I got and how I acted stupid. Those are all the memories I got of high school :p

Enjoy high school romance, take it from someone that didn't.
 

War Against Betaism

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Do it, though just as long as there isn't a lot of people around. She might feel uncomfortable if you kiss her when there's a sh1tload of people around you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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