"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what do you guys think about kissing at school?

(JJ)

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ok there's a girl i like. we've already gone out once (not technically "dating" tho) and i kissed her when we went out. But it wasnt like a passionate make out session it was just a kiss. so my question is do you guys think its weird to pull off kiss number 2 at school? personally ive never kissed a girl at school that i hadnt at least made out with. and also i have a pretty strong feeling that the first kiss should set a good precedent...by NOT being at school. so what do yall think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Randallpink83

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yeah, fvcking make out with her however you can.... School is boring unless you make it fun.

But seriously if I'm in a position where I CAN make out with a girl, you better believe that the situation I'm in won't stop me from making it happen. Even if you must pull her around a corner or goto a more secluded area.

....they didnt have to make a PDA rule for nothing.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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I can't believe you are [censored] asking this! of course you should kiss her in school! just find a private little area where you and your gf can be alone during recess (or at least not a lot of people around) and kiss her! this is high school, enjoy your time there. Girls is a big part of life and it is what memories are made of. You should be kissing as much as possible! Look at me I never had a gf till after high school, do you think I don't regret this? I wish I was in your spot I will forever live with not having memories of my first high school loves cause I never had one, instead I will look back at all the detention I got and how I acted stupid. Those are all the memories I got of high school :p

Enjoy high school romance, take it from someone that didn't.
 

War Against Betaism

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Do it, though just as long as there isn't a lot of people around. She might feel uncomfortable if you kiss her when there's a sh1tload of people around you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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