ok there's a girl i like. we've already gone out once (not technically "dating" tho) and i kissed her when we went out. But it wasnt like a passionate make out session it was just a kiss. so my question is do you guys think its weird to pull off kiss number 2 at school? personally ive never kissed a girl at school that i hadnt at least made out with. and also i have a pretty strong feeling that the first kiss should set a good precedent...by NOT being at school. so what do yall think?
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what do you guys think about kissing at school?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
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Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
yeah, fvcking make out with her however you can.... School is boring unless you make it fun.
But seriously if I'm in a position where I CAN make out with a girl, you better believe that the situation I'm in won't stop me from making it happen. Even if you must pull her around a corner or goto a more secluded area.
....they didnt have to make a PDA rule for nothing.
But seriously if I'm in a position where I CAN make out with a girl, you better believe that the situation I'm in won't stop me from making it happen. Even if you must pull her around a corner or goto a more secluded area.
....they didnt have to make a PDA rule for nothing.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
its fine dude. go for it.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
I can't believe you are [censored] asking this! of course you should kiss her in school! just find a private little area where you and your gf can be alone during recess (or at least not a lot of people around) and kiss her! this is high school, enjoy your time there. Girls is a big part of life and it is what memories are made of. You should be kissing as much as possible! Look at me I never had a gf till after high school, do you think I don't regret this? I wish I was in your spot I will forever live with not having memories of my first high school loves cause I never had one, instead I will look back at all the detention I got and how I acted stupid. Those are all the memories I got of high school 
Enjoy high school romance, take it from someone that didn't.
Enjoy high school romance, take it from someone that didn't.
War Against Betaism
Master Don Juan
Do it, though just as long as there isn't a lot of people around. She might feel uncomfortable if you kiss her when there's a sh1tload of people around you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.