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What do you guys normally do when you realize you're dealing with an attention wh0re?

SamTheHobit

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For example you get her number she pretended to like you etc.

Do you delete there number?

Troll them?

Try to break through there attention whoring manner?

Tell them to fvck off?

Any of you guys manage to bang them? If so how.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As a man its important to know exactly what you are willing to tolerate from women. Don't be too flexible or too willing to adjust to the personality of the woman --> That makes you the inferior (the follower rather than the leader).

Women should adjust to you.. not the other way around. So follow your standard practice until a woman proves she is worthy of superior treatment. She doesn't prove this by being an attention wh0re.

I generally treat attention wh0res much worse than any other type of woman. To me.. they are not people to be taken seriously. So I either forget they exist.. or just mess with them for my own entertainment. :up:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
or just mess with them for my own entertainment. :up:
I've been doing the same. It's a good laugh.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well when I find out I'm dealing with an attention wh0re the first thing I do is post about it on SoSuave.

lol no but actually if I were you I'd just delete her number and forget her. I wouldn't tell her to fvck off or anything... nobody benefits from doing that. Personally I don't think I would derive much entertainment from trolling the girl either so if it were me I would just ignore her and move on.
 

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It depends. If she's an attention ***** and she will let me bang her, I will.

Otherwise I will just start ignoring her. She will reach out to see what I'm up to. When that happens I just escalate for sex only.

Women that act like this are not relationship material and are not good enough for you. Having that mindset helps. Don't feed the attention wh0res.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
For example you get her number she pretended to like you etc.

Do you delete there number?

Troll them?

Try to break through there attention whoring manner?

Tell them to fvck off?

Any of you guys manage to bang them? If so how.

All of your options, aside from deleting her number, require effort. And I don't waste my time chasing attention wh0res.

And for the amount of effort you put into chasing this one girl, you could have met 5 others who were less annoying.

So anyway, no I don't fight them, I don't try to break through, and I don't troll them. No time for that sh!t. Move onto the next one.
 

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Iceberg said:
All of your options, aside from deleting her number, require effort. And I don't waste my time chasing attention wh0res.

And for the amount of effort you put into chasing this one girl, you could have met 5 others who were less annoying.

So anyway, no I don't fight them, I don't try to break through, and I don't troll them. No time for that sh!t. Move onto the next one.
Very well said. Definitely agree.
 

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It's hard to troll and attention wh()re. They probably already have an additional 5 dudes at any given time trying to get into their pants so they wont give two sh!ts about you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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