"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you guys normally do when you realize you're dealing with an attention wh0re?

SamTheHobit

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For example you get her number she pretended to like you etc.

Do you delete there number?

Troll them?

Try to break through there attention whoring manner?

Tell them to fvck off?

Any of you guys manage to bang them? If so how.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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As a man its important to know exactly what you are willing to tolerate from women. Don't be too flexible or too willing to adjust to the personality of the woman --> That makes you the inferior (the follower rather than the leader).

Women should adjust to you.. not the other way around. So follow your standard practice until a woman proves she is worthy of superior treatment. She doesn't prove this by being an attention wh0re.

I generally treat attention wh0res much worse than any other type of woman. To me.. they are not people to be taken seriously. So I either forget they exist.. or just mess with them for my own entertainment. :up:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
or just mess with them for my own entertainment. :up:
I've been doing the same. It's a good laugh.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well when I find out I'm dealing with an attention wh0re the first thing I do is post about it on SoSuave.

lol no but actually if I were you I'd just delete her number and forget her. I wouldn't tell her to fvck off or anything... nobody benefits from doing that. Personally I don't think I would derive much entertainment from trolling the girl either so if it were me I would just ignore her and move on.
 

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It depends. If she's an attention ***** and she will let me bang her, I will.

Otherwise I will just start ignoring her. She will reach out to see what I'm up to. When that happens I just escalate for sex only.

Women that act like this are not relationship material and are not good enough for you. Having that mindset helps. Don't feed the attention wh0res.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
For example you get her number she pretended to like you etc.

Do you delete there number?

Troll them?

Try to break through there attention whoring manner?

Tell them to fvck off?

Any of you guys manage to bang them? If so how.

All of your options, aside from deleting her number, require effort. And I don't waste my time chasing attention wh0res.

And for the amount of effort you put into chasing this one girl, you could have met 5 others who were less annoying.

So anyway, no I don't fight them, I don't try to break through, and I don't troll them. No time for that sh!t. Move onto the next one.
 

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Iceberg said:
All of your options, aside from deleting her number, require effort. And I don't waste my time chasing attention wh0res.

And for the amount of effort you put into chasing this one girl, you could have met 5 others who were less annoying.

So anyway, no I don't fight them, I don't try to break through, and I don't troll them. No time for that sh!t. Move onto the next one.
Very well said. Definitely agree.
 

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It's hard to troll and attention wh()re. They probably already have an additional 5 dudes at any given time trying to get into their pants so they wont give two sh!ts about you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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