"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What Do You Guys Make of This? Real Interest or Not?

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Greasy Pig,

My reply wqs no 1. But will use no. 3 moving forward.

I'm thinking she's trying to get back at me or punish me in her eyes for not canceling the date with the other girl.

First text I got from her this morning was this: "I'm so tired. My bf walked in and woke me up at 2 am last night."

Haven't replied.

I thought if saying I don't want to hear about any more bf stuff buy if I do that then I let her know it's bothering me. Maybe the best thing is to act like I don't care. At this point I really dont.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A man communicates with actions, so don't tell her you don't want to hear that shyt, just ignore it.
If she sends you a text that's NOT about her boyfriend, reply. Women are like dogs. Reward the behaviour you like and punish - with your silence - behaviour that pisses you off.
 
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She's asking what are my plans for tomorrow night. But I think she just wants to hang out as friends. I'll say I'll be busy.
 
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"If you don't have plans I'm making them :p"

Just got this txt.
 
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Should I reply something like yea what do you have in mind? And depending on that say I'm busy or not.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Are you avoiding me?"

She just texted.

What changed she asks.

Lol
 
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are you retarded?

she wants to hang out with you at night. For God's sake, go out with her and escalate, you silly. No need to overthink it this much.

If you two go out and she rejects your advances, never talk to her again.
 
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Pyros,

Already told her I'm busy tomorrow. I'll ask her out for Friday and see if she says yes. She likes to set the date and have tried to change venues before. Like she likes to think she's upscale and stuff.

I've gone out with her and she has been cold to me escalating. Other times she ends up talking about her bf and their issues.

This would be the last straw. Tired of wasting my time with her.
 
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