What Do You Guys Make of This? Real Interest or Not?

[Nu Vision]

Greasy Pig,

My reply wqs no 1. But will use no. 3 moving forward.

I'm thinking she's trying to get back at me or punish me in her eyes for not canceling the date with the other girl.

First text I got from her this morning was this: "I'm so tired. My bf walked in and woke me up at 2 am last night."

Haven't replied.

I thought if saying I don't want to hear about any more bf stuff buy if I do that then I let her know it's bothering me. Maybe the best thing is to act like I don't care. At this point I really dont.

 

[Greasy Pig]

A man communicates with actions, so don't tell her you don't want to hear that shyt, just ignore it.
If she sends you a text that's NOT about her boyfriend, reply. Women are like dogs. Reward the behaviour you like and punish - with your silence - behaviour that pisses you off.

 

[Nu Vision]

She's asking what are my plans for tomorrow night. But I think she just wants to hang out as friends. I'll say I'll be busy.

 

[Nu Vision]

"If you don't have plans I'm making them "

Just got this txt.

 

[Nu Vision]

Should I reply something like yea what do you have in mind? And depending on that say I'm busy or not.

 

[Nu Vision]

"Are you avoiding me?"

She just texted.

What changed she asks.

Lol

 

[pyros]

are you retarded?

she wants to hang out with you at night. For God's sake, go out with her and escalate, you silly. No need to overthink it this much.

If you two go out and she rejects your advances, never talk to her again.

 

[Nu Vision]

Pyros,

Already told her I'm busy tomorrow. I'll ask her out for Friday and see if she says yes. She likes to set the date and have tried to change venues before. Like she likes to think she's upscale and stuff.

I've gone out with her and she has been cold to me escalating. Other times she ends up talking about her bf and their issues.

This would be the last straw. Tired of wasting my time with her.