"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you guys look like?

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I think it may help some to see what other DJs look like and maybe see their style as well. Maybe this will help others choose a clothing style they find fits them best or maybe just see how they stack up against other DJs, maybe this will even boost some of the reader's confidence level? So who wants to post a pic?

If this is a stupid thread or done already just delete it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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BoredDude said:
I think it may help some to see what other DJs look like and maybe see their style as well. Maybe this will help others choose a clothing style they find fits them best or maybe just see how they stack up against other DJs, maybe this will even boost some of the reader's confidence level? So who wants to post a pic?

If this is a stupid thread or done already just delete it.
Here you are!

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't have any pictures on my computer (just formated the hard drive) and for some reason my vaio camera POS is not working.
 

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meitenesrigas said:
You were much hotter in that first one.
Is that supposed to be a neg hit?

Where is your picture?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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meitenesrigas said:
Lighten up. I swear some of you take life way too seriously.
Another comment like that and I'll put a bullet through your head.
lol, j/k bro. Just messing with ya.
 

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ChrizZ said:
You look like a natural. Which isn't a bad thing to have going for you.
I like your choice of girls. Cute blondes are my thing. They look wholesome, which is nice because we know they might not be!

I have tons of pictures like that also with hot girls, and for quite some time now, if a girl on the internet wants a picture I'll send her something like that where I'm with some hot girls.

I used to think it was rude, but now it's the way to go. The jealousy of the girl kicks in a bit. They normally say I'm cute and that the girls I'm with are beautiful, so it works a bit as a preselection trigger. You could definitely use that to your advantage.
 
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