"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you guys look like?

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I think it may help some to see what other DJs look like and maybe see their style as well. Maybe this will help others choose a clothing style they find fits them best or maybe just see how they stack up against other DJs, maybe this will even boost some of the reader's confidence level? So who wants to post a pic?

If this is a stupid thread or done already just delete it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BoredDude said:
I think it may help some to see what other DJs look like and maybe see their style as well. Maybe this will help others choose a clothing style they find fits them best or maybe just see how they stack up against other DJs, maybe this will even boost some of the reader's confidence level? So who wants to post a pic?

If this is a stupid thread or done already just delete it.
Here you are!

 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't have any pictures on my computer (just formated the hard drive) and for some reason my vaio camera POS is not working.
 

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meitenesrigas said:
You were much hotter in that first one.
Is that supposed to be a neg hit?

Where is your picture?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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meitenesrigas said:
Lighten up. I swear some of you take life way too seriously.
Another comment like that and I'll put a bullet through your head.
lol, j/k bro. Just messing with ya.
 

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ChrizZ said:
You look like a natural. Which isn't a bad thing to have going for you.
I like your choice of girls. Cute blondes are my thing. They look wholesome, which is nice because we know they might not be!

I have tons of pictures like that also with hot girls, and for quite some time now, if a girl on the internet wants a picture I'll send her something like that where I'm with some hot girls.

I used to think it was rude, but now it's the way to go. The jealousy of the girl kicks in a bit. They normally say I'm cute and that the girls I'm with are beautiful, so it works a bit as a preselection trigger. You could definitely use that to your advantage.
 
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