"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What do you guys do in your down time?

Hockey Playa

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Hey guys long time no talk!

Thought id come to you guys with a problem ive been having lately. Ive really been trying to get my life together lately, new job, going to the gym, reading self improvement books. One of the problems is that my job at the moment is only 20 hours a week, equivalent to 3 shifts. This leaves me with a lot of downtime which is good in a sense, but it makes me develop alot of bad habits.

For Example, even if i go to the gym for 1-2 hours, run errands for 3 hours, i still have like 9 hours to fill up on my off days. I can only read or doing something productive for so long. So i find myself just passing time watching TV or gaming for like 7 hours on these days. I know people mght suggest joining clubs or whatever, but i do that, and still have a lot of spare time. How can i cut back on video games, and tv? what do you guys do in your spare time?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What area of life do you want to be productive in?

Are you still in school? More classes to graduate faster or internship for experience. Want more money? Get a 2nd job. Want more dates? Spend more time with the ladies.

Or combine all the above: get a paid internship that you can get school credit for and involves a lot of fine women.
 

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You need to decide what 3-5 things are what you want in life. Start prioritizing them and trim the fat in your life. Do you want to be a pro gamer ? If not, then stop using so much of your life playing video games. Decide, then prioritize. Check out Zen Minimalism on the web
 
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