"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do you guys do in your down time?

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Hey guys long time no talk!

Thought id come to you guys with a problem ive been having lately. Ive really been trying to get my life together lately, new job, going to the gym, reading self improvement books. One of the problems is that my job at the moment is only 20 hours a week, equivalent to 3 shifts. This leaves me with a lot of downtime which is good in a sense, but it makes me develop alot of bad habits.

For Example, even if i go to the gym for 1-2 hours, run errands for 3 hours, i still have like 9 hours to fill up on my off days. I can only read or doing something productive for so long. So i find myself just passing time watching TV or gaming for like 7 hours on these days. I know people mght suggest joining clubs or whatever, but i do that, and still have a lot of spare time. How can i cut back on video games, and tv? what do you guys do in your spare time?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What area of life do you want to be productive in?

Are you still in school? More classes to graduate faster or internship for experience. Want more money? Get a 2nd job. Want more dates? Spend more time with the ladies.

Or combine all the above: get a paid internship that you can get school credit for and involves a lot of fine women.
 
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You need to decide what 3-5 things are what you want in life. Start prioritizing them and trim the fat in your life. Do you want to be a pro gamer ? If not, then stop using so much of your life playing video games. Decide, then prioritize. Check out Zen Minimalism on the web
 
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