"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Been seeing this girl a few weeks, we did it probably 7 or 8 times

Well this weekend we are doing it, she is on top. All off a sudden she gets up, takes my condom off, and put it back in her.

She told me she hates the way the feel (I do to to be honest, it was 100X better with it off)

Two things

#1 I know she is disease free (we both got tested, I make all potential LTR's girls get tested)

#2 I know she is on the Depot Shot. She got it when we got tested (so there is no forgetting taking the pill scam)

What do I make of this?
As a rule I always wrap it up, but knowing what I know, it it cool to go bareback?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It all comes down to your judgement. You know she's disease free, and the depo shot is pretty damn effective (plus you were there when she got it). If you're comfortable with all that, then it should be allright.
 

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I am 99% sure she isn't screwing with anyone else (but you can never be 100%)

But yes, I saw her get the shot

Just to tell you boys, I always make the girl get tested, I know some people may think that is strange or awkward, but actually if you approach it right, most girls find it a manly thing to do.

I present it in a way that says it protects her as well as me. I think it shows her that I am sincere if I am willing to go get tested myself.

No sex is worth a life of disease
 

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Its your choice. It does feel alot better and it seems you got your bases covered on this one. Why not.
 

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It is like night and day

Honestly, there is no comparison to how much better it feels, it just hands down better
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Well the only concern I would have is that you have only been seeing her for 2 weeks. What you are talking about makes perfect sense in a LTR but this relationship isn't that.
 

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Well, I decided to go bareback last night, and she rode me till I nutted in her.

I told her I was gonna come, but she just kind of locked her legs and wouldn't get off

Is this a bad sign?
 

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thats sortof fvcked...

man, if its only been 2 weeks,

can you really trust her?

ofcourse its better without a jimmy on, but lets be realistic.. she just pulled it off.. i'd have been like.. what the h3ll..
 

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You probably don't have anything to worry about, provided she's not doing anyone else. The Depo shot is super effective in preventing pregnancy....

.....And super effective in making some chicks fat, too ;)
 

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Perosnally....

When I met my LTR, I was using a rubber for the first 6 months. For one, you can never be to careful at the start of a relationship - for all you know, she could have fvcked someone the day before she meet you - or she could still be fvcking an ex. I don't stop using a rubber until I know nore about her and her personality.

She would say the same stuff -doesn't like the rubber feel etc.. etc. wanted me to *** inside her (turns her on) - you know the deal - but I resisted - because as you said - no nut is worth the price of disease or a kid.

After 6 months I knew her well enough (for me) and got rid of the rubbers.

be safe not sorry.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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^

It's a once a year shot, but is effective in more than 90% of women up to 18 months.

It's got some nasty side affects for some chicks, and there's no antidote.

Some chick don't get a period for 12 months, some get one for 6 straight months :eek:

Weird, huh?
 

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Originally posted by cactus3178
some get one for 6 straight months :eek:
that wouldn't be puirty.:D

i'd probably start putting on the rubber after 10 months, just to be safe....(make sure you mark it on the calendar, so you don't forget)

unless she is a reall ***** and hangs out with junkies (AIDS) i wouldn't worry about it. even if she does shak up with someone with std's most of them can be cured (except few nasty onse)
 

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I would try to get some anal action going on, honestly. It's the next logical step.
 

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Zolo i think you are over reacting mate. Some girls get seriously turned on by you shooting your load in them. If you saw her take the depo i dont think shes trying to get you in pregnant shackles and if she is enjoying herself with you enough she has no reason to shack else where. I would say your fine and just go with it.

Those side effects are ****ing odd?

I know a girl who didnt have a period for 6 months and had to go to hospital overnight about it due to the period pains....

Yes Shiz Nizzle i would do the same mate. ;)

Talking of periods reminds me of the famous joke...

"Dont trust something that bleeds for 5 days and doesnt die."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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