"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Been seeing this girl a few weeks, we did it probably 7 or 8 times

Well this weekend we are doing it, she is on top. All off a sudden she gets up, takes my condom off, and put it back in her.

She told me she hates the way the feel (I do to to be honest, it was 100X better with it off)

Two things

#1 I know she is disease free (we both got tested, I make all potential LTR's girls get tested)

#2 I know she is on the Depot Shot. She got it when we got tested (so there is no forgetting taking the pill scam)

What do I make of this?
As a rule I always wrap it up, but knowing what I know, it it cool to go bareback?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It all comes down to your judgement. You know she's disease free, and the depo shot is pretty damn effective (plus you were there when she got it). If you're comfortable with all that, then it should be allright.
 

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I am 99% sure she isn't screwing with anyone else (but you can never be 100%)

But yes, I saw her get the shot

Just to tell you boys, I always make the girl get tested, I know some people may think that is strange or awkward, but actually if you approach it right, most girls find it a manly thing to do.

I present it in a way that says it protects her as well as me. I think it shows her that I am sincere if I am willing to go get tested myself.

No sex is worth a life of disease
 

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Its your choice. It does feel alot better and it seems you got your bases covered on this one. Why not.
 

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It is like night and day

Honestly, there is no comparison to how much better it feels, it just hands down better
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well the only concern I would have is that you have only been seeing her for 2 weeks. What you are talking about makes perfect sense in a LTR but this relationship isn't that.
 

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Well, I decided to go bareback last night, and she rode me till I nutted in her.

I told her I was gonna come, but she just kind of locked her legs and wouldn't get off

Is this a bad sign?
 

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thats sortof fvcked...

man, if its only been 2 weeks,

can you really trust her?

ofcourse its better without a jimmy on, but lets be realistic.. she just pulled it off.. i'd have been like.. what the h3ll..
 

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You probably don't have anything to worry about, provided she's not doing anyone else. The Depo shot is super effective in preventing pregnancy....

.....And super effective in making some chicks fat, too ;)
 

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Perosnally....

When I met my LTR, I was using a rubber for the first 6 months. For one, you can never be to careful at the start of a relationship - for all you know, she could have fvcked someone the day before she meet you - or she could still be fvcking an ex. I don't stop using a rubber until I know nore about her and her personality.

She would say the same stuff -doesn't like the rubber feel etc.. etc. wanted me to *** inside her (turns her on) - you know the deal - but I resisted - because as you said - no nut is worth the price of disease or a kid.

After 6 months I knew her well enough (for me) and got rid of the rubbers.

be safe not sorry.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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^

It's a once a year shot, but is effective in more than 90% of women up to 18 months.

It's got some nasty side affects for some chicks, and there's no antidote.

Some chick don't get a period for 12 months, some get one for 6 straight months :eek:

Weird, huh?
 

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Originally posted by cactus3178
some get one for 6 straight months :eek:
that wouldn't be puirty.:D

i'd probably start putting on the rubber after 10 months, just to be safe....(make sure you mark it on the calendar, so you don't forget)

unless she is a reall ***** and hangs out with junkies (AIDS) i wouldn't worry about it. even if she does shak up with someone with std's most of them can be cured (except few nasty onse)
 

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I would try to get some anal action going on, honestly. It's the next logical step.
 

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Zolo i think you are over reacting mate. Some girls get seriously turned on by you shooting your load in them. If you saw her take the depo i dont think shes trying to get you in pregnant shackles and if she is enjoying herself with you enough she has no reason to shack else where. I would say your fine and just go with it.

Those side effects are ****ing odd?

I know a girl who didnt have a period for 6 months and had to go to hospital overnight about it due to the period pains....

Yes Shiz Nizzle i would do the same mate. ;)

Talking of periods reminds me of the famous joke...

"Dont trust something that bleeds for 5 days and doesnt die."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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