"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Been seeing this girl a few weeks, we did it probably 7 or 8 times

Well this weekend we are doing it, she is on top. All off a sudden she gets up, takes my condom off, and put it back in her.

She told me she hates the way the feel (I do to to be honest, it was 100X better with it off)

Two things

#1 I know she is disease free (we both got tested, I make all potential LTR's girls get tested)

#2 I know she is on the Depot Shot. She got it when we got tested (so there is no forgetting taking the pill scam)

What do I make of this?
As a rule I always wrap it up, but knowing what I know, it it cool to go bareback?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It all comes down to your judgement. You know she's disease free, and the depo shot is pretty damn effective (plus you were there when she got it). If you're comfortable with all that, then it should be allright.
 

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I am 99% sure she isn't screwing with anyone else (but you can never be 100%)

But yes, I saw her get the shot

Just to tell you boys, I always make the girl get tested, I know some people may think that is strange or awkward, but actually if you approach it right, most girls find it a manly thing to do.

I present it in a way that says it protects her as well as me. I think it shows her that I am sincere if I am willing to go get tested myself.

No sex is worth a life of disease
 

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Its your choice. It does feel alot better and it seems you got your bases covered on this one. Why not.
 

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It is like night and day

Honestly, there is no comparison to how much better it feels, it just hands down better
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well the only concern I would have is that you have only been seeing her for 2 weeks. What you are talking about makes perfect sense in a LTR but this relationship isn't that.
 

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Well, I decided to go bareback last night, and she rode me till I nutted in her.

I told her I was gonna come, but she just kind of locked her legs and wouldn't get off

Is this a bad sign?
 

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thats sortof fvcked...

man, if its only been 2 weeks,

can you really trust her?

ofcourse its better without a jimmy on, but lets be realistic.. she just pulled it off.. i'd have been like.. what the h3ll..
 

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You probably don't have anything to worry about, provided she's not doing anyone else. The Depo shot is super effective in preventing pregnancy....

.....And super effective in making some chicks fat, too ;)
 

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Perosnally....

When I met my LTR, I was using a rubber for the first 6 months. For one, you can never be to careful at the start of a relationship - for all you know, she could have fvcked someone the day before she meet you - or she could still be fvcking an ex. I don't stop using a rubber until I know nore about her and her personality.

She would say the same stuff -doesn't like the rubber feel etc.. etc. wanted me to *** inside her (turns her on) - you know the deal - but I resisted - because as you said - no nut is worth the price of disease or a kid.

After 6 months I knew her well enough (for me) and got rid of the rubbers.

be safe not sorry.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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^

It's a once a year shot, but is effective in more than 90% of women up to 18 months.

It's got some nasty side affects for some chicks, and there's no antidote.

Some chick don't get a period for 12 months, some get one for 6 straight months :eek:

Weird, huh?
 

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Originally posted by cactus3178
some get one for 6 straight months :eek:
that wouldn't be puirty.:D

i'd probably start putting on the rubber after 10 months, just to be safe....(make sure you mark it on the calendar, so you don't forget)

unless she is a reall ***** and hangs out with junkies (AIDS) i wouldn't worry about it. even if she does shak up with someone with std's most of them can be cured (except few nasty onse)
 

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I would try to get some anal action going on, honestly. It's the next logical step.
 

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Zolo i think you are over reacting mate. Some girls get seriously turned on by you shooting your load in them. If you saw her take the depo i dont think shes trying to get you in pregnant shackles and if she is enjoying herself with you enough she has no reason to shack else where. I would say your fine and just go with it.

Those side effects are ****ing odd?

I know a girl who didnt have a period for 6 months and had to go to hospital overnight about it due to the period pains....

Yes Shiz Nizzle i would do the same mate. ;)

Talking of periods reminds me of the famous joke...

"Dont trust something that bleeds for 5 days and doesnt die."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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