You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It looks like the guys game was simple. Work on and pursue doing something exciting. Apparently he had lots of effort in the start of his life. Looks like a decent example that almost anyone could copy. His focus was apparently on self improvement.What exactly are you asking?
The guy is a billionaire who's married to a model. Are you asking if he's doing okay in life? Yeah, I suppose one could do worse.
Which part seems to you to be blue pill? That he followed his passions and that made him a billionaire? Or that he married a woman 35yrs younger than him?Is this a good model to follow or is it blue pill or something like that ?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Raised in rural Texas and made his money in computing in the `90sThis is a classic beta bucks guy. Part of it is related to his upbringing. He was born in 1944 (near the end of The Silent Generation) and raised in rural Texas. He naturally has a blue pill ideology as a result of observing the mating environment of the 1950s-early 1960s.
He has a current wife who is a retired supermodel who was born in 1979.
That's a bold statement. How do you know that? Sure, that's the knee jerk reaction that most have. But how many women who marry at 30 guys of similar age do so out of love?She's only with him for his money.
is that also game ??? if the man can manage it?This isn't game.
This is hypergamy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
this post captures the topic better than the OP does. I have met many elder men that are FULL of game. For example prestige is powerful and also confidence that comes from freedom.Raised in rural Texas and made his money in computing in the `90s
That's a bold statement. How do you know that? Sure, that's the knee jerk reaction that most have. But how many women who marry at 30 guys of similar age do so out of love?
And when the guy has vast wealth, seems he's in a lose lose position, no matter if she's close in age or 35yrs younger, people will say she's with him for his money. For instance, are you positive that Miranda Kerr married Evan Spiegel out of love? Just because they're close in age?
@AmsterdamAssassin mentioned somewhere that some women who are into older men, are into men decades older, not just 5-7 years.
I'll use an analogy.is that also game ??? if the man can manage it?
I would much rather be a billionaire married to a model, than some broke deadbeat spinning five plates - which is what I feel like this forum recommends I be. As soon as people hear a guy is successful and has money, they start looking down their nose at him as being beta.The guy is a billionaire who's married to a model. Are you asking if he's doing okay in life? Yeah, I suppose one could do worse.
yeh, one of the points of the thread.I would much rather be a billionaire married to a model, than some broke deadbeat spinning five plates - which is what I feel like this forum recommends I be. As soon as people hear a guy is successful and has money, they start looking down their nose at him as being beta.
Marrying four times seems a little excessive. But if you're a billionaire, you're pretty much rich enough that you don't even have to worry about getting divorced and taken to the cleaners. You have more money than she could ever clean you out of. If I was a billionaire I wouldn't be concerned about the divorce risk, honestly. I suppose if you get married, it's best to be too broke or too rich to worry about surviving the divorce.He has been married 4 times and divorced 3 times. His 3rd marriage from 1991-2006 had a divorce settlement of $125 million.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
getting a phd is not lucky.I would say he has more luck than game.
Having a man we think of as beta, doing alpha things. Confusing. Leading other men, winning..., attracting women. These are alpha trait. So do we see this as a beta pretending to be an alpha or is it something else ?This is a classic beta bucks guy. Part of it is related to his upbringing. He was born in 1944 (near the end of The Silent Generation) and raised in rural Texas. He naturally has a blue pill ideology as a result of observing the mating environment of the 1950s-early 1960s.
He has been married 4 times and divorced 3 times. His 3rd marriage from 1991-2006 had a divorce settlement of $125 million.
He made good money in the early computing scene of the 1980s but his real money was made in mid-life with his involvement in Netscape from 1994-1999 (around his early to mid 50s).
His beta nature didn't hinder him that much, as he got his first wife before he made money. Bill Gates (who is 10 years younger) needed money and Microsoft CEO status to get attention from a mediocre careerist Microsoft employee. Part of why he's been more successful as a beta is height. He is around 6'0"-6'1" as he is slightly taller than his 4th wife who is 5'10".
He has a current wife who is a retired supermodel who was born in 1979. He bought high on her (as she was 30 when they married). She's 45 now and far past her prime, but a 45 year old is a good get for an 80 year old. She's only with him for his money. In the 2000s, she could have married for physical attraction, companionship, and commonality in going through life's phases if she wanted.
I'm going to go out on a limb and say this guy genuinely enjoys his life and enjoys being himself fairly well.I would much rather be a billionaire married to a model, than some broke deadbeat spinning five plates
It feels like you want validation that this is game.getting a phd is not lucky.
after microsoft started to dominate the relevant marked, he was famous for telling that its important for success to keep showing up for the fight.
most winner loose more than once before the effort pays.
You don't think he's clueless? This is his 4th marriage.Plenty of current rich tech guys are so clueless with women they've got to hire companions.
Some guys want the girlfriend experience, maybe he likes the wife experience.You don't think he's clueless? This is his 4th marriage.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.