"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you enjoy doing, keep yourself entertained, occupied, do when you come back from your day job and on weekends?

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Stephen89

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I'm very curious and intrigued.

I'll start off myself.

When I come back from my 9-5 job, I go on internet forums, read the discussions.

Moreover, in the night, I enjoy watching, listening to the many YouTube horror and paranormal animated or un animated stories. I'm very fascinated and enjoy the mystery of it all, a passion of mine.

Or a documentary on TV.

What about you guys? What do you guys do when you come back from your day job and on weekends?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have to think that the internet has completely crowded out the boob tube for anyone below a certain high age.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Weekdays usually just go to the gym, run errands, cook dinner, clean, play video games. Nothing spectacular.

Weekends i like to do something outside, beach, hike, motorcycle ride, whatever.

Sundays usually a hike/walk or another ride, but more likely not doing ****. I am not one of those people who feels the need to be constantly busy and fill my days up with stuff.

On weekends I also refuse to wake up early and or do anything first thing in the morning.
 
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