"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tennisbuck12

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When you ask a chick via text, for a second text and ignores it and keeps on testing about something else? Still responsive but, never answered the most important question. I haven't responded to her last text, it was a text I could let die.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Slash Dolo

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We can send a man to the moon, but not all of our texts always get delivered.

Don't overthink it. Address it if you want.
 

CuddleJunkie

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We can send a man to the moon, but not all of our texts always get delivered.

Don't overthink it. Address it if you want.
Well, this COULD happen. Ask again for the date, without addressing she ignoring the text...if it was an error she will tell you yes/no, if not, she will ignore it again or call you on it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tennisbuck12

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Guys, she keeps on initiating text with me, and now I've become unresponsive. lol
 

xstang77

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I experienced this with a girl on pof last week,started casual then went into asking if she wanted to meet up,in fact my opening line was something like "hey I'd like to get to know you a little better before we go on a date" maybe a little pushy but anyway she didn't answer the question casually twice then I straight out asked her and got the sorriest excuse how she's looking for a new job,kinda seems stupid to me,if your on a dating site it's for meeting to go on dates,seems like A lot of girls online just want pointless conversations till it goes dead because they never got enough attention from daddy.
 

dustmuffin

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Ask her again and if she ignores, ignore her and move along. Plenty of interested women out there. I just got in from a date. Sex was had. I have dates for sat sun Mon and tues. If an old guy like me can line up the dates I'm sure you youngsters can hang.
 

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Old guys like me everywhere salute you Dustmuffin.
 

RangerMIke

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Anything other than "Yes" must be considered "No", and you should behave just like she said no. So your response so far has been fine. Don't engage her... if she reaches out to you just ask her out again, if she keeps ignoring your request just tell her to let you know when she is available, and go after other women.

Now why does she do this, when she is clearly interested in you? Who cares. Stop caring about what motivates women and what they want..... not only will you be happier, you will actually start doing better with women.

"She's texting me but she won't go out with me... WHY???"

Answer: "Who gives a fvck."

Stop trying to figure out what emotional snowflakes are thinking, because they don't really know why they do the things they do. Whatever reason she has for not saying yes only means that AT THAT TIME, whatever that reason is stronger than her desire to see you.... that is all you need to know.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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