"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I was in Dubai in a pool, swimming lengths, and I noticed this drop-dead gorgeous Arab girl sunbathing on the edge of the pool, she was like HB 11+ absolutely amazing.
I must have sub-consciously been giving her looks while I was resting at the end of the pool where she was sun bathing, she got up and came over to me and said something in Arabic (I'm tanned, and look somewhat Arabic), I could make out 'telephone number', which she said in English.
I replied "Sorry, I don't speak Arabic", and she responds with a disappointed sound, like 'uhhhhhhh' and lies back down... I just continued swimming...
She was stunning....
What would you have done?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you can't understand her, there ain't much you can do.

Except body language.

Ultimately, everyone would have loved to give her a wink, take her hand, and lead her up to your hotel room without a word being said.

Physical contact to build an instant rapport with her (without the aid of words) would have been just about your only option. Unless you can click your fingers and have her english-speaking-but-equally-so-hot-friend appear and lavish you with all their exotic moves.

Still, take it as a positive. This stunner wanted you. She liked what she saw. Now go bag yourself a few english speaking hotties.

No harm done!
 
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KillaCam said:
If you can't understand her, there ain't much you can do.

Except body language.

Ultimately, everyone would have loved to give her a wink, take her hand, and lead her up to your hotel room without a word being said.

Physical contact to build an instant rapport with her (without the aid of words) would have been just about your only option. Unless you can click your fingers and have her english-speaking-but-equally-so-hot-friend appear and lavish you with all their exotic moves.

Still, take it as a positive. This stunner wanted you. She liked what she saw. Now go bag yourself a few english speaking hotties.

No harm done!
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I was in the pool, whilst she was standing on the edge, so physical contact short of pulling her by the feet into the pool would not have been possible! ;)
The think is I'm pretty sure she did speak English, after all she definatly said 'phone number' in English... Every Arab I've experinced in Dubai does speak English... quite often Arab men speak to me, and I say I don't speak English, they usualy respond with, 'where are you from?'. I think the fact that I did not speak arabic was a big turn off for her! :down:

What she said sounded something like: (she said something else in the middle but I forgot) Maybe some arabic speakers can translate..?

Inta jamila! Marhaban ismi pascale ma-smuk, awwalan urid manzaru phone number, min fadlik
 
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styleman said:
I was in the pool, whilst she was standing on the edge, so physical contact short of pulling her by the feet into the pool would not have been possible! ;)
The think is I'm pretty sure she did speak English, after all she definatly said 'phone number' in English... Every Arab I've experinced in Dubai does speak English... quite often Arab men speak to me, and I say I don't speak English, they usualy respond with, 'where are you from?'. I think the fact that I did not speak arabic was a big turn off for her! :down:

What she said sounded something like: (she said something else in the middle but I forgot) Maybe some arabic speakers can translate..?

Inta jamila! Marhaban ismi pascale ma-smuk, awwalan urid manzaru phone number, min fadlik
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I can help you a bit...a VERY ROUGH translation:

"You are good looking. Hi, my name is 'pascale ma-smuk'. First, _____ phone number"

That is as good as I can do for you with what you gave me.
_____."
 
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TillTheEndOfTime said:
I can help you a bit...a VERY ROUGH translation:

"You are good looking. Hi, my name is 'pascale ma-smuk'. First, _____ phone number"

That is as good as I can do for you with what you gave me.
_____."
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Sounds quite forward! ;) Thanks so much for the translation...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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styleman said:
Sounds quite forward! ;) Thanks so much for the translation...
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Yeah, well Dubai is very liberal. It is much more western than middle eastern.
 
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Shezz said:
BS!

Taking into consideration the fact that she was HOT (HB11 dosnt exit - no one is 110% perfect, no one is 100% perfect for that matter) she probably said:

"I know im good looking, im a page 3 model called Pascale ma-shuk, firstly - take a running jump, aint no way your getting my phone number without stepping upto me and being a man - uhhhhhhh"

Sarge On...:up:
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Well, as far as her body language went, it was positive, she was smiling a lot, and before she spoke she bit her lower lip... I'm pretty certain she was not telling me off!
 
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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Yeah, well Dubai is very liberal. It is much more western than middle eastern.
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I'd even say that's forward by western standards.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Inta jamila! Marhaban ismi pascale ma-smuk, awwalan urid manzaru phone number, min fadlik

wow dude how do you even remember what she said in a foreign language? i gamed with a random chick at the club last night in ENGLISH and i already forgot everything she said to me :rolleyes:
 
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DJ4Life said:
Inta jamila! Marhaban ismi pascale ma-smuk, awwalan urid manzaru phone number, min fadlik

wow dude how do you even remember what she said in a foreign language? i gamed with a random chick at the club last night in ENGLISH and i already forgot everything she said to me :rolleyes:
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lol... I got a 1:1 from Kings College London and a 1st class MBA from Insead... Trust me, I remember.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DJ4Life,
seems like your game was not a game...or she was gaming and fooling with you i guess... next time watch out dude..
 
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Trapper said:
DJ4Life,
seems like your game was not a game...or she was gaming and fooling with you i guess... next time watch out dude..
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If you forgot what she said, maybe she was talking too much...
 
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lol i think i was drunk that night

plus i dont give a crap what a random hb7 says to me

speaking from personal experience, remembering what a chick says is just a dishonorable way to use your brain, and a waste of ram on your memory :D
 
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