"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do you do when you're having an off day?

SeymourCake

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Headache, running nose, sleepy, and etc. Does it effect your confidence? Do you just call it a day and hope you could redeem yourself the next day? What is it that you Don Juans do?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you gotta ask other guys what to do when you are sick? come on think for yourself
 

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Um, no? I'm wondering because we all have our off days and I wanna know how people on this forum would handle this certain predicament.

Goodness, can we have a discussion going on here or do I have to make a topic about jacking off in car with a girl sitting beside me to get some replies?
 

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SeymourCake said:
Goodness, can we have a discussion going on here or do I have to make a topic about jacking off in car with a girl sitting beside me to get some replies?
Dude,I had a pin in my mouth as I was reading this thing,and I almost swallowed it from laughing so hard when I saw this.


What do guys do when having an off day? Well all those thing you mentioned about having a headache,a runny nose,and feeling drowsy aren't symtoms of a bad day,they're symtoms of having a cold or the flu.


Look,girls aren't going anywhere. If you have to take a few days to recover from an illness,it's cool,women will still be here to be hit on and picked up when you return.


If today is a bad day,you can always wait til tomorrow.
 

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Feel your feelings. Dont try to suppress them; so be p1ssed off, aggressive, and anti-social if you want.

Perfect is boring, dont always be in a good mood.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SeymourCake said:
Um, no? I'm wondering because we all have our off days and I wanna know how people on this forum would handle this certain predicament.

Goodness, can we have a discussion going on here or do I have to make a topic about jacking off in car with a girl sitting beside me to get some replies?
I'm sure rescue mission wished he never made that thread. Lol
 

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Yeah, but what if you're in a situation where you approach a girl on a good day and she approached you on a bad day?
 

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SeymourCake said:
Yeah, but what if you're in a situation where you approach a girl on a good day and she approached you on a bad day?
Tell her your having a bad day but then try your best to project positivity and upbeat. Your sharing feelings with her that isnt too intrusive and that she can relate to. So she will feel more connected and help your immature relationship strengthen.
 

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SeymourCake said:
Yeah, but what if you're in a situation where you approach a girl on a good day and she approached you on a bad day?
Jessica Alba (or whoever you think is hot) would still look hot if she was sick. If a girl thinks you're attractive, she may not even notice you're having an "off day".

I've been approached by girls even though I wasn't feeling my best. Later on I looked in the mirror and thought "really?", I couldn't figure out what they saw because I thought I looked lousy. Sniffles, red nose and all, girls have a funny way of selecting what they pay attention to.

And the best way to react is to not make excuses. Just like i tell the kids, "you gotta play through it". That is if you have to be somewhere like work or some other commitment you can't get out of. Otherwise I rest and sleep until I'm not sick anymore.
 
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