"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you do when you're having an off day?

SeymourCake

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Headache, running nose, sleepy, and etc. Does it effect your confidence? Do you just call it a day and hope you could redeem yourself the next day? What is it that you Don Juans do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you gotta ask other guys what to do when you are sick? come on think for yourself
 

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Um, no? I'm wondering because we all have our off days and I wanna know how people on this forum would handle this certain predicament.

Goodness, can we have a discussion going on here or do I have to make a topic about jacking off in car with a girl sitting beside me to get some replies?
 

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SeymourCake said:
Goodness, can we have a discussion going on here or do I have to make a topic about jacking off in car with a girl sitting beside me to get some replies?
Dude,I had a pin in my mouth as I was reading this thing,and I almost swallowed it from laughing so hard when I saw this.


What do guys do when having an off day? Well all those thing you mentioned about having a headache,a runny nose,and feeling drowsy aren't symtoms of a bad day,they're symtoms of having a cold or the flu.


Look,girls aren't going anywhere. If you have to take a few days to recover from an illness,it's cool,women will still be here to be hit on and picked up when you return.


If today is a bad day,you can always wait til tomorrow.
 

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Feel your feelings. Dont try to suppress them; so be p1ssed off, aggressive, and anti-social if you want.

Perfect is boring, dont always be in a good mood.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SeymourCake said:
Um, no? I'm wondering because we all have our off days and I wanna know how people on this forum would handle this certain predicament.

Goodness, can we have a discussion going on here or do I have to make a topic about jacking off in car with a girl sitting beside me to get some replies?
I'm sure rescue mission wished he never made that thread. Lol
 

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Yeah, but what if you're in a situation where you approach a girl on a good day and she approached you on a bad day?
 

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SeymourCake said:
Yeah, but what if you're in a situation where you approach a girl on a good day and she approached you on a bad day?
Tell her your having a bad day but then try your best to project positivity and upbeat. Your sharing feelings with her that isnt too intrusive and that she can relate to. So she will feel more connected and help your immature relationship strengthen.
 

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SeymourCake said:
Yeah, but what if you're in a situation where you approach a girl on a good day and she approached you on a bad day?
Jessica Alba (or whoever you think is hot) would still look hot if she was sick. If a girl thinks you're attractive, she may not even notice you're having an "off day".

I've been approached by girls even though I wasn't feeling my best. Later on I looked in the mirror and thought "really?", I couldn't figure out what they saw because I thought I looked lousy. Sniffles, red nose and all, girls have a funny way of selecting what they pay attention to.

And the best way to react is to not make excuses. Just like i tell the kids, "you gotta play through it". That is if you have to be somewhere like work or some other commitment you can't get out of. Otherwise I rest and sleep until I'm not sick anymore.
 
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