"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What do you do when you say something sexual

verysuave

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and the girl gives you kind of a weird look on her face. What Would You Do?
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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RAFCbearfilm

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Can you ask this in some sort of context please?
If I am saying something sexual to a woman I casually know and she gives me a weird look, it may just mean she did not expect it and that it kind of surprised her so she is trying to figure out how to deal with it.
If it is some random woman on the street than she may be trying to figure if you are crazy or not.
 

Snow Plowman

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STOP SEEKING for a REACTION

Yes she is going to do that because she is caught off guard. Once you say things like that you move on. It's like your sitting there looking and thinking "How was that line?" and your just sitting there looking at her reaction.

Don't do that just move on and keep talking like everything is normal. This one girl used to do that a lot. She'd look and go "What...ok" but I'd just keep on talking as if nothing didn't happen.
 

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What exactly was it that you said to her? Honestly, some people's questions on this form are so vague and ambiguous that it's next to impossible to provide a proper answer. It's like 'I met this girl on MSN and errmm she was really into me and now she's not and errmmm... does she like me?' It's always important to include a bit of detail.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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