Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What do you do when you say something sexual

verysuave

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and the girl gives you kind of a weird look on her face. What Would You Do?
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Can you ask this in some sort of context please?
If I am saying something sexual to a woman I casually know and she gives me a weird look, it may just mean she did not expect it and that it kind of surprised her so she is trying to figure out how to deal with it.
If it is some random woman on the street than she may be trying to figure if you are crazy or not.
 

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STOP SEEKING for a REACTION

Yes she is going to do that because she is caught off guard. Once you say things like that you move on. It's like your sitting there looking and thinking "How was that line?" and your just sitting there looking at her reaction.

Don't do that just move on and keep talking like everything is normal. This one girl used to do that a lot. She'd look and go "What...ok" but I'd just keep on talking as if nothing didn't happen.
 

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What exactly was it that you said to her? Honestly, some people's questions on this form are so vague and ambiguous that it's next to impossible to provide a proper answer. It's like 'I met this girl on MSN and errmm she was really into me and now she's not and errmmm... does she like me?' It's always important to include a bit of detail.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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