"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you do when you say something sexual

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and the girl gives you kind of a weird look on her face. What Would You Do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Can you ask this in some sort of context please?
If I am saying something sexual to a woman I casually know and she gives me a weird look, it may just mean she did not expect it and that it kind of surprised her so she is trying to figure out how to deal with it.
If it is some random woman on the street than she may be trying to figure if you are crazy or not.
 
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STOP SEEKING for a REACTION

Yes she is going to do that because she is caught off guard. Once you say things like that you move on. It's like your sitting there looking and thinking "How was that line?" and your just sitting there looking at her reaction.

Don't do that just move on and keep talking like everything is normal. This one girl used to do that a lot. She'd look and go "What...ok" but I'd just keep on talking as if nothing didn't happen.
 
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What exactly was it that you said to her? Honestly, some people's questions on this form are so vague and ambiguous that it's next to impossible to provide a proper answer. It's like 'I met this girl on MSN and errmm she was really into me and now she's not and errmmm... does she like me?' It's always important to include a bit of detail.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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