"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you do when you have a gf but not satisfied?

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I'm in the situation where I have a good looking girlfriend but I got so accustomed to having sex with her so now I don't really get all that excited anymore because I've had her many times already so the novelty is gone.

Should I break it up? We've been together for a few months and I don't want to hurt her but I feel the relationship is kind of doomed already and it would be worse if I keep it lagging longer. When I have sex with her I'm always imagining other girls, but she makes me feel better physically than most other girls I've been with so I'm on the fence. I have a good looking girlfriend but I still feel jealous when I look at other couples, maybe that means there's something wrong. Maybe I need a harem with a few uncommitted **** friends instead of being in a relationship but I'm very much afraid of getting STDs.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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start dating other women...if you find one that you like better, break up with her. Until then, stay with her.
 
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pdx1138 said:
start dating other women...if you find one that you like better, break up with her. Until then, stay with her.
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^stupid and selfish advice.

OP, if your gut feels it is a doomed relationship and the sex feels stale to you, then just bail. Do it as best you can to not hurt her too much, but let the girl go.

You gota find a girl who will make you feel the way you said you see other couples feel.

Dont be a cheater or go behind her back to date other women, because imagine if she does it to you. Youd feel like crap if a girl you really fancied did that, right?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I agree with Jaylan, if you are unhappy, you should break it off and save you both heartache in the future. If she is doing something wrong tell her what is bothering you if you still feel like it can go somewhere. If you feel it will go no where do not hesitate to break it off, cleanly and for keeps, no caving when she cries. What I told my last girlfriend when I broke up with her was do you really still want to be with me if I am not happy in the relationship? Would we not just be wasting time? She got the message left and never contacted me again and I have never contacted her again.
 
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HalfAddict said:
I agree with Jaylan, if you are unhappy, you should break it off and save you both heartache in the future. If she is doing something wrong tell her what is bothering you if you still feel like it can go somewhere. If you feel it will go no where do not hesitate to break it off, cleanly and for keeps, no caving when she cries. What I told my last girlfriend when I broke up with her was do you really still want to be with me if I am not happy in the relationship? Would we not just be wasting time? She got the message left and never contacted me again and I have never contacted her again.
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She's not doing anything wrong, afaik... it's really more of an emotional thing. I don't hate her but I feel that she likes me much more than I like her, and it makes me feel bad. But she does so many things to please me that other girls don't do, I don't know why I feel the way I do. **** I'm talking like a damn teenager now.

I'll probably tell her I need a week or two apart maybe, see how my feelings evolve during that time if I start missing her. I rarely ever stay platonic with just one girl for more than a couple of months so I'm not used to real relationships... I'm really just accustomed to being with people without much commitment.
 
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It sounds like you're just over the stage of infatuation with the girl. This happens in all relationships. Try and get a little freakier in the bedroom. role play fantasies you two have had or something to that extent.
 
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pdx1138 said:
start dating other women...if you find one that you like better, break up with her. Until then, stay with her.
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You're a ****head! I love it! LoL.

Anyway, if you want to make it work you have to make it fun. Get a little creative.

But if nothing works it's not meant to be.
 
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