okay now the title might be a little misleading. i've been with a girl for like 9 months. the longest relationship of my short life. occasionally, she'll say or do something that's spoiled or just generally off-putting, and i'll show distaste/being mildly disappointed with her behavior. (i'm not exactly sure what the feeling is but its not good and she knows whenever it happens) now because of what i've invested in her, these things are not worth dumping her over, but im not exactly sure how to work on this issue. im still in high school ( im posting here cuz no one ever goes to the hs forum) so it might be just cuz im still a dramatic type teenager, but can you guys offer any advice on the situation?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
what do you do when you get upset at a girl you're out with?
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