okay now the title might be a little misleading. i've been with a girl for like 9 months. the longest relationship of my short life. occasionally, she'll say or do something that's spoiled or just generally off-putting, and i'll show distaste/being mildly disappointed with her behavior. (i'm not exactly sure what the feeling is but its not good and she knows whenever it happens) now because of what i've invested in her, these things are not worth dumping her over, but im not exactly sure how to work on this issue. im still in high school ( im posting here cuz no one ever goes to the hs forum) so it might be just cuz im still a dramatic type teenager, but can you guys offer any advice on the situation?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what do you do when you get upset at a girl you're out with?
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