"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what do you do when you get upset at a girl you're out with?

(JJ)

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okay now the title might be a little misleading. i've been with a girl for like 9 months. the longest relationship of my short life. occasionally, she'll say or do something that's spoiled or just generally off-putting, and i'll show distaste/being mildly disappointed with her behavior. (i'm not exactly sure what the feeling is but its not good and she knows whenever it happens) now because of what i've invested in her, these things are not worth dumping her over, but im not exactly sure how to work on this issue. im still in high school ( im posting here cuz no one ever goes to the hs forum) so it might be just cuz im still a dramatic type teenager, but can you guys offer any advice on the situation?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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So, your question is your girlfriend does some things to p!ss you off. Or ruin your mood. And you want to know how to handle it?

Just speak your mind with her.
 

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well if its not worth dumping her over, it cant be that bad. everyone has bad habits, it just takes time to fix
 
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