it's been like 3 weeks since my last 1-month relationship ended, and i've been in damn rut ever since. i've been going out 2-3 times a week. number closing chicks. approaching. none of them turn into anything though. what do you do when it seems like every opportunity is a strike out?
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what do you do when you get in a rut?
- Thread starter Knicknack
- Start date
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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seulaxplaya
Don Juan
uh get out of your rut. talk to more chicks and dont look for something more just meet chicks and be funny and smile and after that it will just come and u will have so much youll be complaining about that
NewMan
Master Don Juan
I was there..... what I tend to do is one of a few things.
Keep plugging away with women
Or I go away for the weekend - just by myself. To the beach or to Vegas. Recharge my batteries, have some fun. That usually works.
Keep plugging away with women
Or I go away for the weekend - just by myself. To the beach or to Vegas. Recharge my batteries, have some fun. That usually works.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I agree with everyone else. Focus on just meeting new people, don't put so much emphasis on meeting someone for a LTR. Just enjoy the scenery along the way, you'll know when you have reached your destination.
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Don Juan
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Thats been my problem all my life.. looking too hard for the elusive LTR, meaning I never made any moves till it was way too late..Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I agree with everyone else. Focus on just meeting new people, don't put so much emphasis on meeting someone for a LTR.
yeah, keep on trying thats the answer,