"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do you do when you get in a rut about working out?

BetterCallSaul

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A couple of things are usually sufficient to induce laziness in me such that I have no desire to do my regular weekly workouts. I try to lift 3 times a week, but if stress from work mounts up to a sufficient level, it really kills it for me. The other thing that kills it for me the heat. Now living in Texas undoubtedly you're thinking "wtf man?"...I like colder weather and keep my house pretty cold but the heat from down south still gets to me during the June-August months.

The past couple weeks have been both actually. Work stress + heat = not doing anything. I managed to get one short workout in last week and that's been it. I'll either take a nap after getting home or I decided to play a couple of video games for a time. Those seem to be the only immediate outlets available for me to relax.

Stress has gone down a little but the heat is gonna be here a while. I'm trying to get my ass motivated back to my 3x weekly lifting sessions. Can you share any tips you use to get out of these ruts of laziness that pop up sometimes?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WhiskeyTango

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I set an alarm for 04:00 and it is on the far side of the bedroom so I am forced to get up and take 10-12 steps to shut it off. From there it's to the bathroom to brush my teeth throw my workout clothes on and straight to the gym. I cannot muster the determination to workout after work so I do it first thing in the morning before my mind has time to talk me out of it. It's been a routine of mine for over a year now. So if I skip a workout I feel like total s**t. Like I said I have been doing this for over a year now with a good diet and haven't looked this good since my football days in college. That is what keeps me motivated and the women dig the cut, muscular look.
 

ubercat

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Yep U always have to hold the line. This week I was sick and stupidly helping the g/f with her assignments. Still did tennis badminton, shadow boxing and 1 weights session. Net result I didn't go backwards and now I'm ready to make some gains
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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