"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What do you do when you first meet a girl?

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Say you are talking to someone online, when you meet them do you shake their hand, give them a hug, do nothing?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The DJ Bible

I'm assuming you haven't taken a look here.
 
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If her looks does not disgust you, shake her hand.
If she's cute or better, hug her.
If she is down right ugly, do nothing.
 
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Well, when I first meet them, I try to make them as comfortable as possible, but then she usually has to go change.

I wait in her kitchen and take out the alcohol, the condoms and handcuffs.

Unfortunately, a few minutes later, her father figures walks out from behind a corner and starts asking me weird questions, like "why are you here?" and "do you know how old she is?"

Eventually, I am thrown into handcuffs and taken to jail for more questioning.

My advice to you is if a guy named Chris Hansen and he's from Dateline NBC, run.
 
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I don't think hugging is the best option but you need to say something to make her feel at ease like oh you look nice...but in a sincere tone.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it doesn't matter what you do, as long as it's not wierd

don't waste your time focusing on details that won't matter once you open your mouth

you plan to open your mouth right?
 
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always go for the hug right at the start!!! this is not an option

i have gona on a blind date (when i started this dj journey) and it worked just fine
 
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