"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what do you do when ur given an AI?

lildevil

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Hb has been givin me Ai's(Approach Invitation) i have my game down but im having trouble with a good opener in this case...anyone has any that are succesful
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AlphaOmega

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You don't need any opener. If you think she wants you to talk to her, all you have to do is not **** up by saying something ridiculous or offensive. Don't be scared, and don't be here asking about "openers" when you should have already spoken to her if, as you say, she wants your attention.
 

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AlphaOmega's got the idea. Just confidently but not too obviously eagerly go up to her, perhaps shake her hand (firmly, but don't crush it -- actually the best hand shake ends with a sort of massage-like glide that subtly conveys mad physical skills), and say "Hi, what's up," or something to that effect. Then listen to what she has to say. Simple, really.

All the better to make good eye contact: sort of flirtatious, but relaxed (kinda hard to describe, but you'll know what I mean once you get the hang of it).

It's more about the "vibe" you convey than anything else. The main thing is just not to screw things up by trying too hard.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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