"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you do when a large girl or chubby girl like you??

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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they are chubby and fat and demonstrate lack of self respect and self control.

that goes for all chubby and fat people
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A little meat on the bones...sure, why not. FAT, no thank you.
 

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People have a different definition of fat. Its all what you like and what you feel like doing, no need to come up here and ask for permission or validation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fat is unattractive and unhealthy. It is a prime indicator of sloth and lack of self respect. Very few people have a genetic dispostion to fat.

Fat is God's punishment for being a lazy a s s hole.

There is a good reason why men don't find obesity attractive. It goes back to evolutionary times: men want to fertilize healthy women who can make viable offspring. Fat women are not healthy. A fat person could be basically walking around with a big flag that says: "Hey everyone! I'm not healthy! I have a syndrome!"

So if a chubby girl likes you, avoid her. If she comes outright with it, tell her you're not interested. If she asks why, tell her its because shes too heavy. More heavy people need to realize theyre heavy. Might as well start here.
 

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i'll never touch a fat chick with a 10 foot poll. There is no excuse for being a fatass unless you have a medical condition thats out of your control.
 

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Originally posted by Luveno
So if a chubby girl likes you, avoid her. If she comes outright with it, tell her you're not interested. If she asks why, tell her its because shes too heavy. More heavy people need to realize theyre heavy. Might as well start here.
Thing is, knight is attracted to overweight women; it's apparent through his posts:
  • Would you ever approach a girl who is chubby or large??
  • Why no?? What is wrong with chubby girls or large girls??
  • There are some pretty big girls i think.
Oh, and knight - to answer your question about what qualifies as overweight, it's all dependent upon height and age. If a girl is 5'0", and she's 130 lbs, then she'd count as fat. If she's 5'9" and 130 lbs, then she's skinny. I tend to stick with anywhere from 4'9" to 5'3", 90 lbs to 110 lbs, but if obese women (generally 130+ lbs) is what gets your blood pumping, by all means go get her! You'll find that you have far more success with these women because 99% of males in society wouldn't look twice at them, and since they are already so self-concious about the way they look (even when camping out at the Picadilly buffet counter) a compliment will open her legs right up. That's assuming the cellulite hasn't melded them permanently together. Bon appetit!
 

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well do you think if i happen to make a fat girl my girlfriend my family or people will make fun of me??
 

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Yes. Perhaps not to your face, but they will. I know I'd definitely rag any of my friends who would remotely consider dating an obese woman... as would mostly anybody else. If you're taking her just because you are unconfident in your abilities to score a better looking (or lighter) woman, then please, please, please stop yourself. You remind me of my old dorm roommate, who only dated fat girls because (by self admission) "I can't get anything except them"... don't be him.

Plus, I see you're from Texas. How would it feel if you were walking with your obese girlfriend near a cattle ranch one day and you noticed the heffers were lighter on their feet than the girl looming beside you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tha Realnezz

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You keep her on as a contact to her freinds and other women.
 

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well iam 150pounds and there this girl who is 19 and she likes me..but i think she is 250 pounds..so..should i stop talking to her??
 

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I'm 193 lbs, and I would never in a million years consider a girl that's TWO HUNDRED AND FIFTY POUNDS. Even if it were left to me and this 250 lb montrosity to repopulate the planet, I would sooner marry my right hand...

That's equal to THREE girls size that I'm used to sleeping with. Good GOD man!

However, if you're attracted to a cow... woman... nearly twice your weight, and that really is beautiful to you, and you don't think that you could ever do any better, then by all means take advantage of the situation... best of luck.
 

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TWO HUNDRED FIFTY POUNDS?

She'd better be 7 feet tall.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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