"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you do when a better DJ enters the scene?

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50/50?

Does everyone agree with that? There are some dark horses around (average people who rake in the girls, works under the radar) and ones who are image queens (virgin players lol)

I am curious to know what are the statistics for DJs and non-DJs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rudy_TubeSteak said:
What do you do when a better DJ enters the scene?
If you are Skip, lookyyoung or danielzc, you flame him and make false accusations and cry cry cry like a biotch for his banishment from Sosuave!
 
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Counselor I am a little busy planning my trip at the moment. I tend to ramble on too much. Perhaps you can write it yourself. I am curious to see other peoples' input.

LMS.....come on.

Dont try to imitate them sarcastically.

Let them answer with their own input. They are "PIMPS" after all
 

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Competition is good. It'll help you elevate your game.

I remembered when Earvin "Magic" Johnson retired, and how he thanked Larry Bird for making him a better Basketballer, because the level at which Bird played made Magic "up" his game, and to become a better player, because he had to rise to the level of his competitor.

Don't fear, but welcome competition, AMOG's, CB's, because it'll make you a better PUA/DJ
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I got a guy around better then me... though he isen't a DJ, cause he doesn't have the style for that. He just makes out with them and then dumps em.

Anyway I was working on an HB8 and he took her right in front off me away from me. I was dancing Really Really close to her (face to face, where you know it just takes a few more seconds to score). He taps on her shoulder, says a few things to her. Next thing I know she's all in to him and completely forgotten me :down:.

Good thing is it made me want to improve even more, only way to do that is start DJ-ing overday etc...

Anyway my advice would be try to befriend him, figure his game out, try it yourself. Also keep him as a friend, only if he starts stealing your girls, make sure you return him the favor 10 folded. (justice is balance :D and I love it)
 

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Good response guys.

OK back to my previous question...What if it was right on the spot and your girl is on the line. You dont have time to get to know him and you wouldnt want to lose your girl. However you dont want to look insecure. (some girls let others try pick them up, a sh*t-test) If they pass it then the girl stays with him.
 

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Rudy_TubeSteak I guess if I had to... I would try to grab her attention or his... Maybe cut him off in conversation. Start introducing other people to her and help them strike up a conversation.

Really a lot of it seems to depend on the situation.

Seriously though sometimes you are just in the wrong place at the wrong time and the other guy isn't... :(
 

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I remember going to a beach party several years ago. Enter some guy. Whispers began to circulate among the crowd. You could almost feel the energy as people furiously talked about this guy's reputation as a master of seduction and womanizer. Several minutes after coming into the scene, he walked away with one of the finest females "available" who had a boyfriend. He walked her to his truck. They did their thing. They came out. She was smiling and waddled back. And he was ready for more.

What do you do when something like this happens? Regardless of whether you were affected, observe in amazement. Allow yourself to be inspired. Use that energy to up your game.
 

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Be friends with him. You can learn, and you got another successful guy to hang around.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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